How many people here are single and like it?

May 28, 2008 10:30pm CST
are you single and like it? or single and dislike it? discuss it here.
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32 responses
@loujac3 (1188)
• United States
29 May 08
I consider myself to be single. The generic term is divorced. I think that term is a stigma and I refuse to use it. I like not having to answer to someone else but I miss having a companion. I want to be with someone who would respect my space and allow me to be me. I do not want to be a caregiver/mother/obedient slave. I raised two daughters and an ex-husband and that was enough. The last guy I dated was 20 years older and I rean the other way when he came on like a love starved puppy. Besides, his driving scared the holy cr#p out of me. Maybe someday I will meet the right guy, whatever that means.
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@isegor (118)
• Portugal
29 May 08
that gave me a good laugh. I believe both are very nice, you just need to enjoy each one when you are there. I was in a relationship for over 4 years and it was fantastic. At first I was really sad to see it end, but with time we understand that life goes one and there is so much you can do to enjoy yourself and the extra time you have. doesn't matter other people opinion on it, you have to try it for yourself to build up your personal opinion.
@fifileigh (3619)
• United States
30 May 08
i am single and at peace with myself, doing my own thing and independent. i dont want to marry for the hell of it, only if i really like someone and it feels right. most people i met so far are just friends...havent met someone i can live the rest of my life with...
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• Philippines
16 Jun 08
i'm single and loving it - no pain,no worries, and free but "bitterness" is oftenly felt.
• United States
11 Jun 08
I am single and ejoy it very much. I have been in to many relationships that I've been hurt and ended up leaving my boyfriends for it. I sometimes get lonely seeing all these other couples together and kind of miss the feeling of loveing someone. I guess being sigle is good for now til I over come my fear of ever getting hurt again and can open my heart to that one special man out there.
@zonaly (40)
• Philippines
11 Jun 08
I like single. I am a man hater.
• Philippines
11 Jun 08
i am single, never been married and with no kids. honestly speaking, there are days that I will say I really like it being single and free to the true essence of the words...BUT sometimes I don't feel like staying single forever after all.
@YOULANLIU (312)
• China
11 Jun 08
Chinese usually describe marriage as the besieged city.People who have never entered it are eager to get in as soon as possible while those have already entered wish to get rid of this shackle.I think both single and marriage have their pros and cons,they are just part of our life.
@dandan07 (1908)
• China
11 Jun 08
I am still single, and like my present life now. But as I never have partners before, so I can not sure whether I will still like to keep single after have a boyfriends. My parents want me to find my another half soon, so that I will have enough experience in my life, and find out how wonderful life with partners. I like changes in my life, but it seems that now it is not the right tiem for it changes.
@harrish (126)
• India
11 Jun 08
i am single.. now at present i like this.. becoz i have no responsibility , commitments ect.... but in future if i get that age to be married.. i have to... there is nothing like we "LIKE OR DISLIKE".. its our life and no way .. we have to lead... so i think i'll make myself to like my life.. and what about u?
• Jamaica
11 Jun 08
I am single, recently separated from my husband. I hate every minute of being alone, not that i would ever go back to him, right now the chance of that is very slim, but right now life is looking very dim. The lonliness is driving me crazy and worse of all i have a sick baby.
@shaeyan (58)
• Philippines
8 Jun 08
I am single and I enjoy it. I can do what I want to do, no confusions whatsoever, nothing to worry about, and I got more experiences right now.
@babyanj (131)
• Philippines
7 Jun 08
I'm single. I've never been in a real relationship... Just occassional flings here and there. I love being single. I don't have to answer to anybody or say where I'll be going and what time I'll be back. I can do most anything. :D
@grace24 (1050)
• Philippines
7 Jun 08
yes!!i am single..i enjoy my life of being single..i hold my own time..and i can do anything that i want..i am free and i am enjoying every time of it...
@loujac3 (1188)
• United States
7 Jun 08
It has its pros and cons. No one to take up the majority of the bed or covers. The toilet seat is always down. No empty containers in the refridgerator. No one to snuggle with....wait, I want someone to snuggle with! I have been single for almost ten years now and I miss having someone to snuggle with. I guess I prefer to have someone but it just isn't happening right now.
• China
7 Jun 08
I'm single now,but I don't like to be this.I'm waiting for my pretty boy,although his heart isn't on me. I wish he will come back early...
• United States
5 Jun 08
i'm single but i don't really like it
@naaadh (217)
• United States
3 Jun 08
Single?? I dont remember when i was single. Ive been with my girl friend for the past 3 years and my life is just wonderful. I love it really. I dont want to be single every. Cause thats boring. Imagine living single. Daah. Im really happy i got a caring loving understanding girl. We both love each other and we have the same type of thinking. Everyday is beautiful with her around. Anyway welcome to mylot and good luck with the discussions.
• United States
2 Jun 08
Well I really like being single, just being able to not have to please someone all the time, and yet I miss going out and doing things w/ my girlfrined and just having someone there who actually cares about my life. So I am kinda torn between in the end :\
@teka44 (3425)
• Brazil
31 May 08
Hi Pills, welcome to mylot and enjoy your stay here. I am single and till now I love it. Better alone that with bad company lol. cheers
@lieanat (1140)
• Malaysia
31 May 08
I prefer single. As I can do many things without being restricted and free.