28. would you fall in love knowing that the person is leaving?

@Kaeli72 (1230)
United States
May 29, 2008 10:28pm CST
28/101 If you found yourself falling madly in love with someone, would you continue to do so knowing that sooner or later, they'd end up leaving you due to something they could/not control? I did...over four years ago, I met someone and fell in love with him. Now, the kicker of this is I loved him before I met him in person. But, even as I held him in my arms, even as we bid each other "good bye", I knew in my heart of hearts that one day we'd see each other again. Because of that, I held onto him and the love that we represented. If it was meant to be, no matter what, we'd be together again some day.
5 responses
@INGA832 (1114)
• Russian Federation
31 May 08
It happened to me. When I met him I knew that sooner or later he would leave and we wouldn't be together. But I let my heart to lead me and I really fell in love. But it was very hard for both of us to part, when I still feel his arms around me and his lips on mine.
@Kaeli72 (1230)
• United States
2 Jun 08
I know how that is. The one I fell in love with still haunts me today. Well, figure of speech. We chat as often as we can and when I see his picture come on my screen, those feelings rises up. But, it's worse when we talk about the time we held each other, when we saw each other's eyes...and when we loved.
@INGA832 (1114)
• Russian Federation
2 Jun 08
The most difficult thing was to let him go. So much pain was inside. Thanks for choosing my responce as the best! Hope we both will manage it!
@dpk262006 (56563)
• Delhi, India
31 May 08
If you truly love him, please be 'optimistic' and 'positive' in your approach. No one knows what is going to happen tomorrow with him. So please do not worry about tomorrow, when 'tomorrow' comes in reality, then think about the situations and what best you can do in that. Nothing is everlasting and permament and everyone has to go one day, so be practical in your approach. All the best for your everlasting relationship.
@flowerchilde (12547)
• United States
30 May 08
Yah, it's hard to deny love.. better to have loved, than not to.. Unless they loved someone else.. then I'd have to love someone else..
@Pixelus (151)
• Philippines
30 May 08
i dont know the answer either, perhaps its really right to not to love that person whose leaving anyway. but the problem here is loving the person before you met him. this in any case is very hard. because what your real problem here is not the person leaving but you heart which is inlove.
@subha12 (18453)
• India
30 May 08
no i wonts. if i knew it before hand that the person is leavingm, why then i should fall in love with him? it will be just waste of time. actually in many cases we do not know this and thus bnreakups.