your bestfriend fall inlove with you...
May 30, 2008 1:18am CST
2 of my bestfriend proposed to me... 1st was my college days,we are so close that his family knows me and they treat like im one of them... i know his secrets and he knows mine,i know whos his gf's and he knows my crush.i cry to him on my deepest agony and he hugs me and kiss my forehead to comfort me and thats no malice on me.i hug him when he needs,and always present on his hurtings..until a fren of ours told me,that my bestfern is inlove with me...few months already,i had ignore it and treated him the same way.even he already told me about his feelings,and told him that are friendship should be value,and better to keep that way... years after,we separated cos i hav to move away for work... then i met another friends,and another guy became my best freinds.at work we became so helpfull to each other and i never thought he will fall on me.we call each other best,and we been friends for 2 years alredy,until he proposed,he said since the day 1 hes already have feelings for me.its not that they are not my type,the reason i refuse them...its because friendship really means a lot on me.i am so confident to show them my actions ,expressions and i can face ther families with no malice... i have been polite to tell them 'no' lets keep it this way,i love you,your my best friend and dont want to loose ther friendships...but sumhow i know i hurt them,i dont want that to happen again... how bout you?...does this happen to you?... how do you handle this kind of situation?...
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31 May 08
Wow. That's pretty rare and impressive. You must be someone special. Sadly, this hasn't happened to me. And I don't think I'd want to ruin a friendship for something more. I don't think it would work the way I would want it to. It's better to have someone close and who will stay with you through hard times. If you become a couple the relationship may or may not end at some point, but who knows what the after effect will bring. I don't think you would be as close as you were being just friends.
31 May 08
i have seen couples started as frens and they wer sucesful,and my parents are frenz before they got married....but they separated...and i think its really depends on the partners how they will handle the relationship,and im not againts about it...its just that i dont feel what they feel for me...notting special...