Have you ever felt loney in your life?
May 30, 2008 9:14pm CST
Have you ever felt that you are alone and felt lonely in your life even with all the friends and relatives in your life? What will you do to remove the loneliness and sadness?
• United States
31 May 08
Yes. Every day of the week. I am married and have been with the same person for 16 years now. He never has anything to say to me unless it about something that does not have anything to do with us as a couple. He says he does not talk much but when someone else comes around, he never shuts up. He tells jokes and laughs and has a ball with them but supposedly we are best friends. Yeah right! He acts like I do not exist most of the time. He can sit by me all day and not say one word to me but when I get stressed about it, he doesn;t understand why. It is very lonesome. I have no friends either and that makes it even worse. I spend most of my time alone!
31 May 08
Yes.i felt loney in my life for many times.Even now,i feel loney.Thought i have my family,my friends.and everything important in life.i just can't help feeling lonely.Because when i am sad and someting happen,i tell one of my friends,she was busy and didnt take much attention on it.so i felt lonely again.There's someone who are really willing to be my listner,but i don't want them to know what happen.That's strange
10 Sep 12
Hi friend, some times we will face this kind of loneliness, if we don't have trust with our friends and relatives as well as they are not good for us, we have the ability to come out from it using our skills and talents, we can achieve a lot of things with our skills, if we think about the progress, we don't worry about the loneliness and do our work properly
1 Jun 08
Yes I do sometimes when I'm frustrated or got into fight with someone. I stay in the room crying and sometimes no appetite. My coping mechanism is to keep myself busy and avoid thinking problems. Or maybe talking out the problem to someone.
31 May 08
i have never been alone in my life. whenever it happens, that is because i choose to be by myself. i choose to be alone for that particular moment. i have friends, family and relatives who are so dear to me and make me feel wanted. but the feeling of loneliness seldom sink within me. yes, i do have these people. but there are times that they make me feel aloft. there was once a moment that i really felt lonely. it was after our college graduation and i have to let go all of my college friends for us to move on with our individual lives. but it seemed i was having a hard time dealing with it. i felt lonely then. i think though i have not stopped feeling lonely until now. maybe it is because i am still longing for someone to make me feel special.