Cheating

@sk66rc (4264)
United States
May 30, 2008 11:47pm CST
As I go through the topics of cheating, I see a lot of discussions about the cheating situation, weather it's hypothetical & otherwise, with MEN... I was just wondering about women who cheats... Any guys out there who were cheated on or any thoughts on women cheating on men?
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@kassdaw (593)
• United States
31 May 08
I have some thoughts for you. Women cheat, we cheat very well, we are very sneaky about it. You don't hear much about women that cheat because women that do are good at it. Men, no so much. We women pride ourselves on being better then men in somethings and that just happens to be one of them.
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@sk66rc (4264)
• United States
31 May 08
I have some thoughts on that as well... I'm not trying to pick a fight here but if that was me, I don't think I'd take a pride in a fact that you, not you personally but "you" as in women, are better at "cheating"... It's almost like saying, "I'm a better wife beater than you" or "I'm a better thief than you" or "I'm a better rapist than you", don't you think?
@kassdaw (593)
• United States
31 May 08
Women like to think that we are better at things then men, that is a fact. Women know this. We like to be better at things then men, it makes us happy. One thing that we are better at is cheating, we don't pride ourselves on that, just on the fact that we are better at things. That is what I meant.
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@sk66rc (4264)
• United States
31 May 08
I've made another discussion titled "difference between men & women"... I understand you are talking about in general terms & you are right, at sudden things, women are far better at it then men are... But what I'm curious about is that why men always seem to suffer, generally speaking men more so than women, from double standards... That was my initial intention of asking this question in this discussion... Why do we always have to separate genders then first sign of men getting ahead, women cry out foul play? I'm speaking in a general terms here & of course there always will be exceptions... "I know of someones brother's wife's mother's friend's daddy's cousin's best friend said......." We always can find exceptions but that's not what I'm referring to... I'm speaking as in general, it seems like men are more so than not a victims of double standards...
• Philippines
31 May 08
In my culture, its more like the opposite - men cheating on women, they be husbands, boyfriends or even casual male friends. But I believe there are women who are good in this game, and can get away with it. I guess it comes naturally when the woman is in a situation where she cannot make an intelligent choice or decision, and that she has to cheat to gain time for her to eventually decide..
@alcazar (763)
• India
31 May 08
there are many instances with the girls dumping boys and going with others....its just like they always seem to like come out cleanly and all the blame is put on the boys