Would you still keep in contact

New Zealand
May 31, 2008 8:15pm CST
Hey there mylotters I was just wondering if you moved away from where you lived and there was a friend that none of your family wanted you to talk to or have any contact with would you still stay in contact with them no matter what your family and other friends thought of you being friends still after your friends and family meeting them?.
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14 responses
• South Africa
20 Jun 08
hardly, when i moved aboard when i was quite young we dont have the technologies as we have today you know, all those cellphones, internet and blogs and so on. The only medium we were using was mailing address, and that stopped when one moved to a new address and the other one was not informed
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• New Zealand
20 Jun 08
Hey there thank you for your responds ya I agree todays emailing and all means you can keep in contact better with people in a way I think.
@andrix (95)
• Indonesia
9 Jun 08
Keep in touch with friend are must if your friend is sincerer and in our heart, there are good friends and bad friends you know, I think we must keep our friend as long as the life goes, help each other would be very sweet, don't you think loveyoohbaby? Have a nice day, and keep posting!
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• New Zealand
10 Jun 08
Hey there Thank you for your responds.Yes I would have to agree there with you.You also have a nice day.
• China
5 Jun 08
definitely will,hehe.
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• New Zealand
5 Jun 08
Hey there thank you for your responds and comment.
@jessieBee (1046)
• Trinidad And Tobago
4 Jun 08
Yes if that person is my friend i would still keep in contact with them. Who are they to decide who i am to be friends with. But if they raise good points that the person is a bad influence on me, then i will consider their thoughts. But if he or she is a wonderful person then there is no way I'm not going to keep in contact with them.
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• New Zealand
5 Jun 08
Hey there Thank you for your responds it is a more tricky situation the reason why i asked this question.
@mychattime (1013)
3 Jun 08
I would still stay in contact with them and given time it would show if they were a good friend or not as to whether they stayed in contact with me! It takes more than one person to keep a friendship alive. I've moved away from several places and you realise just how many friends you have actually made there, they will keep in contact for a while and then stop. Sorry I'm waffling, anyway what I'm trying to say is yes I'd keep in contact with them after all you can choose your friends but not your family and most times when parents tell children not to be friends with someone the child rebels and is friends with that person to spite the parents! Anyway happy mylotting x
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• New Zealand
4 Jun 08
Hey there Thank you for your responds Ya it is a tricky think to do with why I asked this question.
@rhane7315 (5674)
• Philippines
3 Jun 08
of course yes. they became a part of my life so we would never loose communications with each other
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• New Zealand
4 Jun 08
Hey there thank you for your responds That is kind of what I thought but then looking back I would much more leave this person I happen to be meaning should say in my past I think it is for the best that they do.
1 Jun 08
That's a very specific question - are you speaking from experience? I suppose you'd have to think about the reason why your family didn't like this person - sometimes we can overlook peoples flaws because we don't want to see them and get hurt. Though generally I would say that it;s best to go with your own intincts and not those of your family. If you wanted to keep in touch with this person then your family have no right to condemn you for that, it'd be your choice entirely.
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• New Zealand
1 Jun 08
thumbup[/em]Hey there Thank you for your responds Yes I am speaking from experience Well I spose it is for a good reason that they did.
• Pakistan
1 Jun 08
no never if my family prevent me from some one not to talk i will never but if my friend try to stop i will never
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• New Zealand
1 Jun 08
Hey there thank you very much for your responds.It is a good think as when my mother and step Auntie came to get me from this persons place my mum only had to walk as far as the doorstep and my step Aunties first impression was that she wanted to help get me out there and then.
@marketing07 (6266)
• South Korea
1 Jun 08
yes,i will still contacting him/her.as a matter of fact i have a friend who is our neighbor everybody hate her..coz she talk straight forward..but inspite of that even if we are miles away from her our communication still regular..
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• New Zealand
1 Jun 08
thumbup[/em] Hey there thank you for your responds Ya this person I am meaning I use to live with and when my mother and step Auntie meet this person for the first time they did not like them and got a very bad vibe from them with in 5 seconds of them being in this persons presents and could not get away with me also quick anove then for along time I had no contact with this person untill a friend of mine gave this person my number then they are trying to get me to move back in with them but I would much rather live that life I happened to be living in the past where it belongs.
• China
1 Jun 08
I won't be stopped contacting with some friends just bcoz of my family's suggestion or warning. That's because no one else knows your feeling of being friend with the one. If you think that's right then go.
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• New Zealand
1 Jun 08
thumbup[/em] Hey there thank you for your responds ya I agree with you but in saying that this person I am meaning did not give a good vibe and my mum and a step auntie did not like being in her house the short time they where.
@dragon54u (31547)
• United States
1 Jun 08
My family doesn't choose my friends. Although I value their opinions, I have a right to choose my own friends. At times, they can see things in people that I can't and they may advise me that I shouldn't spend so much time with that person but if you're an adult you have the right to pick your own friends.
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• New Zealand
1 Jun 08
Hey there thank you for your responds ya that was what happened in my case with the person I am meaning they could see some think I could not and got bad vibes with in seconds of being in there place.
@Shawchert (1040)
• United States
1 Jun 08
if that person is truely myy friend then i will still keep in contact with them but i've never been in the situation where my family would not approve of my friendship with someone.
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• New Zealand
1 Jun 08
Hey there thank you for your responds
@jstmarfz (1499)
• United States
1 Jun 08
well, in my situation i have been asked and warned by my relatives and close friends of mine to the person that they knew that would jus cause a problem and just playing around with me. but they knew that as long as i have not proven it yet with myself that he/she is like that i wont do that. no matter how they warned me i would still continue seeing or talking to the person as long as his not soing anything wrong to me.
• New Zealand
1 Jun 08
Hey there thank you for your responds Ya at first meeting as soon as my mum and auntie walked in to this person I am meanings house they felt a bad vibe so got out with me as quick as they could a.
@Mirenia (199)
• United States
1 Jun 08
If they were my friend I wouldnt care what anyone else said or thought about them, I would stay friends with them and keep contact with them. I would never let my family or other friends choose my friends for me.. only I can do that.
• New Zealand
1 Jun 08
Hey there thanks for your responds I totally agree with you.