Love is hurt

@m_5ugar (1013)
Malaysia
June 1, 2008 12:44am CST
I just broke up with my girlfriends. She just don't love me anymore. I'm so sad because she have someone else. I ask her, why she do that to me. She just answered that I'm too perfect for her. She just could not lie to me anymore. So sad now. Really really sad. Just need someone to cheer me up.
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5 responses
• United States
1 Jun 08
Wow, Im sorry to hear that. :( break ups are hard... but if there is nothing there for her. Perhaps, its time for you to move on too. Which could be great for you. You could meet someone that is just right for you, even more perfect for you. Trust me, the pain doesn't last forever. And the sooner you let go... the less it hurts everyday.
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
1 Jun 08
I feel so sorry for you. i have had my heart broken many times and i know exactly what that feels like. I hope that she will change her mind and come back to you if she cares for you. I'm sorry she broke your heart. I have had that done to me and I prayed to God to send them back to me if it is meant to be. I have been happily married for 13 years now when God sent the last one back to me. If it is meant to be, she will come back. I hope that you find love again soon. I know how it is to be in love and lonesome. Best wishes.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
1 Jun 08
I am also sorry for you. I had also happened to me in my life. May be one of the reason is that she is not feeling the same intense of love as you felt. I think you should carry on with your life and open your heart for someone else. I always believe in the policy to love someone who loves us rather than someone who does not love us. It is always great to spend time with people who loves us and make them happy and be happy rather than being sad and thinking about someone who does not love us.
@rsa101 (37933)
• Philippines
1 Jun 08
Well sorry to hear that you are broken hearted right now but then look at it this way. It is far more better to know that she has been honest with you at this point in time than when things are really deeply in love. Right now may fee that you have been betrayed but as she said it to you you were too perfect for her. Well too bad she decided to lose you. For me what is good is that you know the truth and you can now move on with your life and find someone that you deserve to have. I think what is important is that you can now move on and faced the truth yourself and be happy that you know she does not deserved you at all.
@howard96h (11640)
• New York, New York
1 Jun 08
Hi m_5ugar, there is an old saying "you don't know what you have until you loose it" so maybe the time you two are apart she will miss you and come back to you. I know your probably not in the mood to be doing anything but try to spend some with your friends to help take your mind of this for now. Good luck and feel better.
@m_5ugar (1013)
• Malaysia
4 Sep 08
Thanks Howard. That is true, she now often contact me. I think she just miss our time together, but now it is too late for her, because I have found someone else that really love me for me and not for antyhing else.
@howard96h (11640)
• New York, New York
4 Sep 08
I wish you the best of luck my friend.
@m_5ugar (1013)
• Malaysia
9 Sep 08
Thanks friends!