Life is what you want it to be...........R u agree with this statement?

June 1, 2008 12:52am CST
I am not agree with this .As I always want to be a BEST daughter,sister,friend,wife and above all a good human being.But today I found myself helpless as the circumstances around me are forcing me not to be so. Anybody help me how to improve my patience level????
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5 responses
@ayrin03 (318)
• Philippines
1 Jun 08
hi there! the best thing you will do is not to expect on what your have done..The more you expect the more you will be hurt..just try to do things that's good but you're not waiting for you in return..it's the best thing!! trust me
2 Jun 08
Thanx for your sugesstion But I am not alike.I think if I am doing good for others they should atleast acknowledge that.I am not expecting any materialistic thing from them,I just want some appreciation.............This is b'coz m a normal human being.
@AshleyHasan (1025)
• India
27 Jun 08
I dont agree with this statement, If life is something what I want it to be , then I will think I should make every body happy , resolve the issues and concerns of every one enjoy with my family and have lot of money to help others but that is not possible, life is a challenge we have to take it that way it comes to us, try to be good human being as far as you can, no one are perfect in this world except GOD but we can always try to be good maximum we can try for that by doing small things like not hurting others , our family might have lot of expectations on us , specially loved ones we may not make them happy by giving every thing but we can try to make or feel them happy by providing what we can , please try that , start your day with prayer dont keep any angry in your heart try to love each person and put yourself in their shoes and think , say thankyou and sorry for every thing, I am sure you will have happy life ..All the best .. You will soon become good daughter, sister, wife, mother and WIFE! I am the best I feel so because I just follow what I have said to you.
@leateagee (3667)
• China
26 Jun 08
In a way, I do agree that life is we want it to be but sometimes, there are situations that hinders us from achieving such desires. When faced with this matter we need to have the right attitude. We should never give up. Life is a road of travel...a journey. We will never get to ur destination if we stop and we think we are hopeless. No one is hopeless to a person with great determination. You must have a goal every day. For your patience level, just mind your own and your families future. make a plan or a direction in your life. No one is a loser unless he/she accepts it. Take care =)
@Gesusdid (1683)
• United States
2 Jun 08
i think the saying , is trying to say , you are what you put out in life , the more you put in , the more you get out of it , i think ..then again if that were true i would have a better life lol you can strive to be the best but only you can be you thats what i go by , and it doesnt mean do everything half azzed but just do whatever you do your way and by your pace
@sid556 (31018)
• United States
1 Jun 08
I have never experienced life is what I think it should be or WANT it to be. If that were the case, I'd be sitting on a remote beach on a beautiful island sipping on some exotic drink with no cares in the world. Life is full of ups and downs and the downs are what we tend to dwell on. I just do my best to work thru the bad times and appreciate the good. you are not perfect and neither is the world. you just have to cope with it and learn from your experiences and move on.