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@raclie (1734)
Singapore
June 1, 2008 4:43am CST
what will you do if a female says nothing? will you keep asking her whats wrong, whats wrong? or will you just go ok... and carry on doing your business? what are you thinking when you sa nothing is bothering you when there is in fact something that is bothering you? is it something like... yes...something is bothering me but i dont want you to help me? so what do you think?
3 responses
@roanne05 (1292)
• Oman
1 Jun 08
i guess are like that..when i say nothing but really means yes...hmmmp lets see...i mean yes there is something bothering me but i want you to find out for yourself what you did wrong...be a mind reader..hehehehe!
@raclie (1734)
• Singapore
1 Jun 08
haha... we do really have a high expectation on men right?
@roanne05 (1292)
• Oman
1 Jun 08
yes...a very high expectation indeed, to the point i want them to read my mind!hehehehe!
@raclie (1734)
• Singapore
1 Jun 08
*sigh* "oh god if you can hear me, will you please let men hear our thoughts? if you do, there will be lesser people going to hell because there will be lesser women murdering men for not understanding them.. thank you lord" do you think this will work????
• Philippines
1 Jun 08
I believe that you should ask her whats wrong, but only a couple of times. If she still does not want to answer, then simply say "Okay you don't have to tell me yet, but if you're ready, I'm ready to listen"(^^,)
@raclie (1734)
• Singapore
1 Jun 08
yup... i think that is a good idea.. how i wish people will do that!!! life will be a bit closer to perfect...lol...
• Philippines
2 Jun 08
If only men are sensitive enough...If only ALL men are sensitive enough, cause i know some men out there are!just not enough for all of us women!(^^,)
@acevivx (1566)
• Philippines
1 Jun 08
The best thing to do is stop asking her what's wrong but don't make the mistake of ignoring her . Instead, Be more attentive to her by attending to her needs, showing concern about her comfort, serving her whatever you think she needs and letting her feel that you arew xconcerned about her silence and worried about what's bothering her. Be patient and in the end she will tell you what's bothering her. Maybe she's mad at yu or at something else but she will tell you in her own good time so be patient and wait for her to do so. Usually, when a woman keeps silent and does not want to tell what's bothering her, it maybe because she is bothered about something the person asking her has done or said or she nis just not in the mood to share her feelings so give her space and let her choose her own time to share.