What if....

@devtina (371)
India
June 1, 2008 9:37am CST
Does your husband or boyfriend oppose to you having any friends at all....is your Husband or boyfriend the jealous kind...if so how do u cope up with them....just wanted a few ideas on what you would do in such cases...its easy to say i'll leave my husband or my boyfriend and find a another one...or like some say if the person who thinks i should not have friends then he is not the right one for me...apart from that is there any thing else that can be done...when even talking him over it doesnt make sense...please share ur suggestions
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@kerriannc (4281)
• Jamaica
1 Jun 08
You do not need to leave your boyfriend/husband. Relationship is about compromising, communication and respect. Sit down with your husband/boyfriend and let him know that you have a problem were this is concern. Sometimes someone on the outside can see things that we who are in the friendship cannot see. Many friends are there because of what they can achieve out of the friendship and because we are so deep into it we do not have the eyes of an outsider. Sometimes because of our caring attitude our friendship are abuse by others. So instead of making an hasty retreat of abandoning your love one's communicate first.
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@devtina (371)
• India
1 Jun 08
Thats a lovely thought n a very nice one.....you have written very well ...thanks for stopping by to respond :)
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• Canada
4 Jun 08
If my husband was the jealous kind, I would not stay with him. We both love and TRUST eachother, and we have seen eachother tell people where to go, when they have flirted with us, and we were not interested. We are only interested in eachother.
@devtina (371)
• India
5 Jun 08
Good for you both :) TRUST is very important in a relationship that is very true ...:)