Big Big Problem...pls help me?

@nupats (3564)
India
June 1, 2008 2:32pm CST
we have been married for a long long time now....we still face one major problem in our married life which is not resolved bcoz we dont know wt to do..my husband likes to make love early in the morning and i just dont like it bcoz this the last thing i wud like to do early in the morning..i prefer brushing, bathing, and praying in the morning than making love...i prefer making love in the night dim lit room romantic setting but he wants to watch tv and he says he is tired and sleeps off...do u face a similar problem? do u like making love in the morning or night? how wud you draw a conclusion in this situation pls advise some solution to this problem..
2 responses
@ayessa (1586)
• Philippines
3 Jun 08
That to me is not that big problem. Have you talk about it? Have you tried to explain to him your reasons? If yes and he still insist on making love in the morning then I think it's the time to compromise with him. Why don't make an schedule of your love making. Anyway, you can still make love in the morning after brushing and taking a bath if that was your main reason why you don't like doing it.
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@nupats (3564)
• India
3 Jun 08
my main problem is with brushing and bathing..i think i will spk to him again..thanx a lot for ur advise..have a nice day..
@property (453)
• United States
1 Jun 08
Maybe you could try at noon. Then you'd both be awake. Or maybe try a schedule like Monday, Wednesday, Friday in the AM then Tuesday, Thursday, Saturday in the PM and take Sunday as a day of rest. I'd prefer my special time with my mate to be spontaneous... I enjoy him whenever the mood hits him.
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@nupats (3564)
• India
3 Jun 08
noons are tough bcoz he is at work..but yes i think we need to decide on days as u suggested..thank u so much..have a nice day..