what if you saw your bf/gf kissing someone

@myanime (434)
June 1, 2008 7:22pm CST
What will you do and react?
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19 responses
@carinio98 (2935)
• Philippines
12 Nov 08
then i will find another someone who i can kiss with her too and go in front of them. and say "kala mo ikaw lang pede ha"
@myanime (434)
13 Nov 08
Hehe! Nice one kuya! Find someone who is cuter than your girl.... But I guess after that scene you will never be together again... hehehehe
@carinio98 (2935)
• Philippines
13 Nov 08
its ok with me coz i saw her with another guy it means only one thing... we cant be together now. so i probably find someone to replace her. they always say.... if you lose one... it will be replace a hundred....
@myanime (434)
13 Nov 08
oh ok.... hehe... You don't even wanna ask for an explanation? What if she is forced to do that?
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@cottonm (753)
• Malaysia
6 Jun 08
this topic remind me of a song "Sad Movie", the lyric begins somewhere with "... i went 2 the show alone, they turn down the light & turn the projector on, when the news of the world started 2 begin, i saw my darling & my best friend walk in, why i was sitting there but they didn't see, & so they sat right down in front of me, when he kiss her lips i almost die, and in the middle of the colour cartoon i started 2 cry, oh oh oh, sad movie always make me cry, so i got up & slowly wake on home, & mama saw the tears & said what's wrong, & so 2 keep from telling her a lie, i just said sad movie always make me cry..." this song described the hurt feelings very strong, i guess i will react somehow like that, just walk away, no point to argue when he doesn't love u anymore...
• Malaysia
20 Jun 08
Oh gosh ....i guess i will runaway from the place and hide myself for awhile..;-P
@cottonm (753)
• Malaysia
17 Jul 08
when there is no place 2 escape, u still hav to face it...but the saddest thing is, u lose your best friend & your bf on the same day (the song scenario), but if he kissing with a stranger, i will slap him on the face, this is a usual reaction from a gal...however, with a funny thought, if i m confident enough, i will push away the stranger(gal), and give a french kiss to my bf deeply & seductively, and then tell him this is a 'goodbye kiss' & also tell the stranger that: " u see, this is the way he love to being kiss, u r way too long to reach that, so this is my phone no., if u wanna learn how to kiss him, i might teach u if he begs me to do so..." won't u think it's better...hahhahahhah
@myanime (434)
9 Nov 08
Yup! Your right... There is a different reaction if your boyfriend kissed your bestfriend.... Hehe nice one..... If I'm in that case? I just probably sit beside them and ask my boyfriend: "So, How was the kissed? " Then I will give her my cutest smile and leave....
@snowy22315 (50867)
• United States
6 Jun 08
Iwould probably break up and not want to have anything else to do with him. Seeing something like that is traumatic, if I heard about it after the fact I might be able to deal with it better.
• Germany
8 Jun 08
I would leave away and never contact her again.
@Amanda81587 (3046)
• United States
17 Jul 08
well, I would probably be upset and run to the closest friend to cry my heart out to!
@relundad (2311)
• United States
17 Jul 08
I would say, "oh I'm sorry I thought I was your girlfriend, my bad!" My reaction would be I am hope you like her because she is your next girlfriend...starting now! Have a great life.
@secretbear (19464)
• Philippines
16 Jul 08
i'll probably be shocked and be nailed on the spot for a while. i'd probably start cursing him and the girl. surge of emotions would probably get me into planning what i will do to humiliate them in public. but i'm a person who doesn't like confrontation so i'd probably walk away and wait until me and my bf are alone and that's where i'd interrogate him and i'd probably ask for a break up. no second chance. he did it once he'll probably do it again. if i were with a friend when i saw that kissing scene and the friend would insist to show my face to the guy and the girl and humiliate them in public, i'd probably do it as long as my friend would go with me.
@Odamashin (434)
• Philippines
26 Jun 08
Well if that's the case then, i will ask my husband who is that girl and why did he kissed her...because my husband gives his kiss (a beso - beso) only to his first cousins..but if i saw him kissing someone else who is a stranger to me..i don't know what i can do..i will feel upset and betrayed by my husband..it's terrible..he cheated me...though i might give him a second chance,i can't trust him like i do before..everything will change..
• India
13 Jun 08
That is very difficult question and simple question also. I will see if she is kissing a baby then i will be happy that she love baby. but if is kissing some one young then it will trouble me i will just show my presence there and will ask abot this scene. I will tell story is over now thats all i don't know you from now ownward. and i will leave her if it is possible.
@chej18 (915)
• United States
13 Jun 08
I think i am not going to react in public.I saw my guy having s** w/ someone else and i didnt react in public but then when he back home i asked him about it. And then i said i dont want to see him anymore. At 1st he denied it but then after he know i saw him.Then he feel sorry and guilty asking for forgiveness.But i am not a kind of person who can react too much i rather be calm than be wild.I dont want him to hold me,kiss me, even look at me after a while.
@iamnes (325)
• Philippines
7 Jun 08
i'll punch him in the face then kick him out of my life! no explanations! in the first place, he should be responsible with his act, he knows the consequences of his act whether i caught him or not, so why bother hear his explanation? when he opted to kiss someone else, then that means he opted to choose that person over me!
• Philippines
6 Jun 08
i will smack them down
@ml2blog (414)
• United States
4 Jun 08
If I saw my bf kissing someone, I would stand out where he can see me, and I would stay silence. After he saw me, I leave there. I don't want to make myself ridiculous.
• Colombia
3 Jun 08
If I a see my girlfriend kissing another guy I would leave her inmediately, without waiting any explanation.
• Singapore
3 Jun 08
if such a thing is to happen. i would just walked away, even if he sees me or not.. i'll cancel all connections with him.. to me, a bofriend is someone who makes a commitment to you(even though you are, in future might not marry each other) this is just the way i think.. and what i believe.. so don't be too harsh on me.. :)
@kanade (39)
• India
2 Jun 08
First i will have talk with him.and know whether she is her classmate or a good friend.As i am an indian i can't accept my boyfriend kissing to someone.because girls are sensitive towerds their personal things.They can't take easily when her boyfreind dare to kiss a girl.i will ask him to reply frankly why did he feel like kissing a girl when he have such a lovable girlfriend.and will finally warn him to be loyal to me if he really wants to continue our love relations.
@bagumbayan (2707)
• Philippines
2 Jun 08
It depends, if the kissing is not loving kiss thats okay. A sisterly kiss or a buddy kiss is just alright. But if the kissing is like the kiss being given to me I will confront him.
@ayessa (1586)
• Philippines
2 Jun 08
That's will make me furious. But Id rather control my emotions. If I have the courage I'll go to where they are and say. "What a lovely scene. Basta**d!" Then as soon as a bullet I'll have a breakup with him and never want to see him anymore.
• China
2 Jun 08
Well,we will see what the situation is .difference between this place and that place. In our area , custom of our country forbid this kind of things .so it won't happen to me .In case of what you say that.I will very angry with my gf. But in other areas, perhaps it's natural to the gf/bf kissing somebady.
@chiyosan (30203)
• Philippines
2 Jun 08
If I really see him kissing a stranger, I guess I would go up to them and make him see me. I will not do anything scandalous, I will just show myself and never tell him anything and will not talk to him anymore. I will just send him a message that we are over, and that he need not contact me or explain anymore. If he is my BF, I would know everyone he knows and if the girl he is with is new to me, then he is 100% cheating on me and will most probably just lie to me if he tries to explain anything.