Prolly Last Post From Me..

@tessah (6622)
United States
June 3, 2008 7:58pm CST
for a while at least or maybe for good. was scanning through discussions id started.. checking for responses i mightve missed. i dont like not commenting back if someone takes the time to make a response in the first place. common courtesy ya know? well.. over this past mothers day, i had posted about my husband.. how very sweet he was for the plans he had for me for this day of moms.. detailed the plans, and how happy i was. only one person had commented, someone *I* thought was really decent.. and these are the tags left on the discussion Tags: bad mother, mature content, no moss, you smoke after the bullsh|t over my attempt to help people from being scammed and ripped off.. this has just been too much of a slap in the face for me. so im either taking hiatis from this place.. or wont be back at all.. i will take some time until im not so pissed off, and then decide. but for now.. bye
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@Carolyn63 (1403)
• United States
4 Jun 08
I'm sorry that you are so upset and dissapointed. I haven't been here all that long. I generally go to things of interest to me. I don't respond to every single thing my friends post either. I don't get responses on all of my posts. It doesn't bother me. Most people that know me realize that I like to share my heart, my life, and my experiences. I don't expect them to like everything I like or everything I say. Also, I don't get in here every day. I have health issues and currently have a mother in law having major issues. Also, I haven't a clue how many people actually are members here but I know I can't respond to each and every post anyhow. I do have to work. I kinda like eating and paying my bills. I hope that you will change your mind and consider that others may have similar things going on in their lives. Not for me or my sake, but it appears that you like sharing also. A friend dragged me over here. I am glad she did. I have made new friends, made a few dollars and have really enjoyed myself. I'm happy with that.
@tessah (6622)
• United States
4 Jun 08
i dont care if everyone responds to my discussions.. my thought was that it had only been responded to by one.. so that ONE had been the one to lay the insulting tags.. which ive learned now isnt the case.. you can tag a discussion without ever posting on it.
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@Carolyn63 (1403)
• United States
4 Jun 08
Some people are just rude and uncaring. Some have a warped sense of humor. Sorry that someone is acting out like that. I don't see the sense of it at all. Hope they realize that they are just making it hard on the rest of us and stop.
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• Canada
4 Jun 08
I get it. It p!sses you off when people are stupid and cruel. I agree. Unfortunately there are always bad apples in every bunch. I, for one, enjoy your discussions even if I do not post to all of them. I think you are a good addition to mylot. So, I hope you do not leave. Try to take it with a grain of salt and concentrate on the positive.
@p1kef1sh (45642)
4 Jun 08
Heck Tessah that's a drastic step. I know nothing about tags and ratings etc. I don't involve myself in either except when I have to tag a discussion that I post myself. What i do know is that your posts always make good reading and if you are not around this place will be the poorer for it. I think about leaving almost every day. I have even done it once - as a protest. All that I can say is that if you need a breather do take it. But come back when you are ready. We need people who are both smart and sassy. You fit that bill. Smile and don't let the bar stewards grind you down.
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@tessah (6622)
• United States
5 Jun 08
thanx p1ke.. in all honesty, i dont give a crap about the ratings (still tryin to get rid of this star, so minus me!!)or who likes me and who doesnt.. my problem was the idea that someone who i thought was decent and friendly towards me, was being a twoface and slamming me for whatever reason. ive sinced learned since posting this thread that you can tag a discussion without posting, so the person i was upset about wasnt the one what did it. not much ticks me off more than liars.. specially those i consider decent. no worries, now that ive figgered out i was a dimwit, im not going anywhere.
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@p1kef1sh (45642)
5 Jun 08
That's great news Tessah. Yours is the first post I've viewed today and that's already made my myLot morning. Hooray!!!
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• Regina, Saskatchewan
4 Jun 08
Tessah, this is my third try at posting a response here, so I hope that doesn't mean you've been wiped. lol It's obvious though that you've been insulted and that's just not on. These trolls who leave tags and don't post just make me so mad. Take a breather, but don't abandon us for good. Post on the threads of people you know won't insult you and I'll be more diligent in responding. I would miss you and your squishes something fierce if you were to leave the lot for good. Hugs my friend.
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@tessah (6622)
• United States
4 Jun 08
wasnt aware of the not having to post to tag thing.. thank michael for my new found knowlege.. i'll be sticking around. ..;SQUISH!;..
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• Regina, Saskatchewan
4 Jun 08
Oh goody - feeling all gooey now! LOL
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• United States
4 Jun 08
People are just crap. I didn't know until reading this thread that people can leave tags without even responding to posts. Sounds like someone probably did that. That's complete crap. At any rate, it's always good to take a breather if things get to bothering you. But don't let those kinds of people get to you. I know that I've enjoyed reading the stuff that you post. I find your posts and responses to other people very insightful. Even though I'm real new around here, I know that I enjoy going through the threads and reading the stuff that you write because I learn so much from what you post. You've taught me a lot. (especially to SLOW down and read through the threads very carefully before jumping in, heh) But you're very knowledgeable and I enjoy seeing that knowledge shared. At any rate, take a breather if you need it, but please come back! :-) Maybe if there is a way to complain to the admins about the tagspam or something - I'd imagine they have a way of tracking who did that - it seems very clearly mean spirited. Don't let that kinda crap win over. Peace
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@tessah (6622)
• United States
4 Jun 08
i didnt know it either lissa.. learn something new everyday but least its cleared up at any rate.
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@djbtol (5498)
• United States
4 Jun 08
When you do not know who to be mad at, it does no good to be mad. You only hurt yourself and not the person who created the bad tags. Just shrug it off and focus on the good responses you get. djbtol
@ellie333 (21029)
4 Jun 08
Oh Tessah, That is awful. I haven't been online since Thursday and am just playing catch up now. Take a break if you must but don't let a minority spoil itas the majority here are good guys and wouldn't dream of placing such tags. Big Hugs. Ellie :D
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• United States
4 Jun 08
I'm sorry to see you go. I enjoyed reading about your daughter who whispers to butterflies. You seem like a free spirit and I admire that. Don't let one bad banana ruin the bunch! I hope you come back. Bye.
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@MsTickle (24962)
• Australia
11 Jun 08
Tessah! Don't you dare leave!. You are one of the truly REAL people here and that keeps me sane. I appreciate your honesty, forthrightness and the care you show. Have a bit of a break to regroup your senses then come back, please. Oh, I nearly forgot...I can't imagine you letting a cretin get the better of you. You are so much more than that, so much above that. Don't let the frickin weirdos get you down mate. If you do, they win...is that what you want? Nah, course not. to the wierdos.
@tessah (6622)
• United States
11 Jun 08
ahhh tickie.. not going anywhere. the situation was resolved, and in the end i was a halfwit. i wasnt aware that you could tag a discussion without posting on it.. i can deal with idiot liZards being their moronic selves, but i thought someone that was a 'friend' was being a douchbag, and it pissed me off.
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@MsTickle (24962)
• Australia
11 Jun 08
Oh well, silly you. It does happen here but no-one would be as up front as that...some of your so called friends would get together behind your back and be sneaky and underhanded in emails to each other...in front of the world they will be your second best friend. Be cautious. Always have your sense of humour at the ready.
• United States
5 Jun 08
Oh no!!! I am sorry to hear someone has done that to you:(.. people have so much time on theur hands. i think that when you start a discussion you should be made to make 5 tags. and after youve made them they are set in stone and no one else can add any:(.. I hope that my lot foxes this problem for you. that is just crazyness, and i hope we do see you soon. but have a great brake we all need one somtimes for sure!
@saundyl (9690)
• Canada
4 Jun 08
I'm so sorry that someone did that to you. It was terribly rude, I hope you choose to stay and ignore the people like that. It'd be nice to be able to edit tags AFTER you've created a discussion to remove things like that.