Have you ever been back stabbed by your friends?
By ieeko89
@ieeko89 (1054)
Malaysia
June 4, 2008 9:45pm CST
I've been back stabbed so many times. It just so hurt;(
I have this one friend who is so immature and always pointing her finger on me. And am still quiet after what she did to me. Am just the type of 'better hurt myself than hurt someone's feelings'. And i just realize that those who stabs me from behind take me for granted;|
Hmphh. And once, a very good friend of mine told bad things about me at my bf. She said she met me with some guy. SHE LIED! I was with my gf's when we bummed into each other. And she's the one who went out with some other guy altho she got bf already. She's a player. Got plenty of scandals;) What goes around comes around. I just found out that her bf did the same thing like she did to him. If we're still friends, i'll probably tell her. But too bad, she ended our friendship because she thought i told her bf bout this one thing which is i DONT! She doesn't even bother to ask me first before cursing me without reason. I was shocked. Never mind, the truth will reveal someday. I can't wait for her to know that actually whoever told her bf bout 'that thing' is someone that she trust the most among all her friends. And her very good friend, stabs her from behind when she went out on a date with her bf and always on the phone every night;) How i know bout this? Because her bf is my bf's roommates. I just hope i could tell her bout that, but i think better she find out herself. And by that time, i hope she realize that she's doing mistake when he accused me for something that i didn't do and never do to my friend. Am good in keeping people's secret:) But too bad, they still can't see it.
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8 responses
@ayessa (1583)
• Philippines
5 Jun 08
I have been stabbed also before. And it feels like hell. I never imagined that she of all the people in the world will just stab me. She's not just a friend of mine but she's my cousin and we are very close I treat her as my sister and unknowingly she's been stabbing my back for almost a year before I knew it. I even dare to ask her why did she has to do those things to me but she never replied. I even forgave her even she does not ask for it but it seems she's not interested with me anymore so I just let her be. I made my distance to her from then on.
@money_maker01 (1097)
• Malaysia
5 Jun 08
Hi ayessa, it's kind of sad but I think it's not wasting not to have such friend like that.
@money_maker01 (1097)
• Malaysia
5 Jun 08
hi ieeko89, based on your story, it reminds me on my best friends when we were in A-Level when I was in 18.
The story pretty similar, much alike but the end got a bit different. We were best friends for one room, one of my best friend told the other my friend's boy friend that she's having another affair. But the truth she just wanted to snatched him from my other friends. It ended up with she managed to get him. Till now on, I still could not accept our best friend did that to my other best friend. We're just like sisters.
And for me,myself a friend of mine did that to me. She made my other best friend hated me so much. It just like letting her did it. I was so tired to defend myself. I did accept that she back stabbed me,myself. but the most important part is I will never accept those 2 friends any longer in my life. First of all, she made such a story to my friend. Second one, my friend who got the story didn't ask me directly on that.She just trusted to that girl.I did accept that but I have no reason to accept them in my life again.
The story pretty similar, much alike but the end got a bit different. We were best friends for one room, one of my best friend told the other my friend's boy friend that she's having another affair. But the truth she just wanted to snatched him from my other friends. It ended up with she managed to get him. Till now on, I still could not accept our best friend did that to my other best friend. We're just like sisters.
And for me,myself a friend of mine did that to me. She made my other best friend hated me so much. It just like letting her did it. I was so tired to defend myself. I did accept that she back stabbed me,myself. but the most important part is I will never accept those 2 friends any longer in my life. First of all, she made such a story to my friend. Second one, my friend who got the story didn't ask me directly on that.She just trusted to that girl.I did accept that but I have no reason to accept them in my life again. @ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
5 Jun 08
Wow, I really don't get why must they did this to us when we're being so nice to them?
They take us for granted! And yes, i will not accept her in my life anymore if she ever say sorry. It's too late.
And if i were you my dear money_maker01, i'll probably do the same thing since am the type of better hurt myself than hurt people's feeling. But the point is, they should ask we first! Before they make any conclusion. Because at the end, we're the one who look bad to people's eyes after she told the stuff that actually we didn't do. And i hope they'll get back someday. By that time, they'll feel exactly what we felt;')
@money_maker01 (1097)
• Malaysia
5 Jun 08
LOL. I think we're kind of letting our self to be hurt. LOLOL. it's natural to be like that.but those jerks took the advantages.lolol
I think we're kind of letting our self to be hurt. LOLOL. it's natural to be like that.but those jerks took the advantages.lolol
@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
6 Jun 08
hi ieeko.
with friends like that, who needs enemies? you're better off without her.
i've been back stabbed before and it's not a great feeling. this has happened to me a lot of times but i've always managed to maintain my dignity and not stoop down to their level.
of course, if i reach my boiling point, i'd stab my friend as well but not in the back. most probably in the eye and i'll slit his throat and put a bullet in his head and two bullets in his body for good measure. lol!!!
@taqinaka (429)
• Malaysia
5 Jun 08
i think i've been backstabbed once.i cnt recall when.but i think i remember once.damn that guy.ahahahah.i wan to punch him in d face.but thinking that if sum1 does bad to us..we shouldnt do bad to them in return..we must show the positive thing in hoping that they will change rite?but wat the heck.who gives a damn .now when i think of it..i feel like searching for him n give him a gud wack.ahahahaha.
@msmamaof3 (244)
• United States
5 Jun 08
If someone treated me like that I wouldn't consider them my friend. I'd say ditch 'em.
@adindaanne (88)
• Malaysia
5 Jun 08
sepakje si munyet tuh.hahaha :D amek ko aku sorang je gune bahase melayu rongak dalam ney.
@naaadh (217)
• United States
5 Jun 08
So far a friend has never backstabbed me, but ive had really lame friends, who forgot about the friendship, forgot about me and lived their own happy lives. I have a small advice for you. Dont let your friends hurt you. You have to stand up for it and fight back. Thats what i do. I never give up on an argument or a fight even if it takes 2 hours. i just keep on proving im stronger than the person im dealing with. Im sorry to hear about what your friend did. Try to show everyone you rule ;)
