Top signs of cheating in a relationship

guilty - guilty verdict
Philippines
June 5, 2008 10:12pm CST
Post here some signs that your partner is cheating on you. Here is my share:As partners, you don't keep secret to each other, so you let your partner check your cellphone anytime he/ she wants. Both of you have an arrangement on that and he/ she also lets you check his/ her phone anytime you want. But the time came when he/ she refuses to let you check his phone. Then you will start thinking what's his/ her reason behind that. You will now have doubts of why he/ she suddenly not lets you touch your phone. Please share your thoughts on this so everyone can learn something especially those people in a relationship or married ones. Thanks.
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10 responses
• Philippines
6 Jun 08
Being in a relationship is a bless but if in a wrong one is a missed.Boys and girls has their share as a great pretender. At first, its hard to notice a cheating boyfriend/gf but if the cheating will continue and flourished then the sign will be notice 1. cold i love you's or no luv you's anymore, if you tell them that word look at their eyes coz eyes can tell you honestly. 2. They will start to have more alibies like their mom wants to bring him/her to somewhere or they have to run an errands.sort of that. 3. You will notice that their email password has been change or a new email is made. 4. You will no longer invited to family gathering nor ask to be in their house. 5. Change the way they communicate with you. 6. Always get you in a debate way of conversation.. If you feel that manifistation, you better confront your partner immediately if what you notice is alarming and ask them if they worth to fight but if not... leave the jerks out of your life...anyways...its not your loss... its their lost FOR THOSE WHO ARE STILL IN LOVE AND HAVE A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP... ENJOY...AND CONGRATS
• Philippines
6 Jun 08
Nice ideas.. You really have a helpful guidelines for those in relationship to investigate on their partners. You are right on saying that honesty can be seen from the eyes.. That's why when me & my partner is having a small fight, I keep on asking her to look at me while we are talking It's really alarming when your partner doesn't exchange "i love you's" with you anymore. Even if he / she reasons out that he / she is tired, it's not right. Another sign is when your husband left your house (for work) with gel on his hair & when he got back home, the gel wasn't on his hair anymore & it seems that he could have taken a bath and his smell is new to you. This is questionable when you know very well that he don't have sports & doesn't go to gym after work.
6 Jun 08
oh god... i have been questioning my partner for a hile now and i can answer yes to all those questions..but hes still denying it so how can i get it out of him???
• Philippines
6 Jun 08
If you know that he is cheating on you no need to ask him, just leave him. You cannot force a liar to tell the truth. I have experienced it. My ex lied to me right in front of the evidence. Silly, right?
@zhwbeast (328)
• China
6 Jun 08
I never check my partner's cellphone and other things which just for ber.I think it's no need if i trust her. THere are some signs of cheating in my opinion.like could not look me straight at a long time;the words often could not match the things which I ask;reduce the time together with me and others.
• Philippines
6 Jun 08
My example is not really against the privacy of your partner or issue of trust, as what i've said checking the phone whenever he / she likes it not really everyday or everytime.
6 Jun 08
I do agree with zhwbeast .Becasue the love really needs trust ,and we have no need to check his or her messages except the one he/she want we to say ... it's a kind of trust and respect .Without it i think the love will be meaningless and can never last long ... and the ways to see wheather a person break faith should be like what he said ,we should pay attention to the details of the one's actions and to get some information... and talk with the person in a right time ,set him/her free if the one wants to leave ...
@zhwbeast (328)
• China
6 Jun 08
Yes,it's right that let the partner go if he/she want to leave,but we often could not accept it,because the life of us is around the partner,and then the heaven is break down. We maybe take the aggressive action for our love.
@anndocs (249)
6 Jun 08
Actually, girl has a very high instinct, we will know if the guys hides something on us. If you feel somethings is wrong confront him right away. I just thankful that my man is been honest to me, I once suspected him, I saw unregistered # on his phone calling in the mid night,to cut story short I was end up wrong. And he told me that I have nothing to get jealous , he just working and going home in time..he assures me wherever he is or plan to go he let me know. Actually it's just all about trusting each other. One of the sign is : "Hiding" , you will noticed something's fishy going on.
• Philippines
6 Jun 08
Honesty, love & trust will keep the relationship last longer. You are right on saying that girls have a very high instinct especially when they don't feel right or they feel that there is something wrong happening. If you feel that way, you should immediately talked to your partner so that if ever there is really a problem, you can talk it over & settle things as soon as possible.
@chej18 (915)
• United States
13 Jun 08
Sign that your partner is cheating: 1)When she/he keep saying "I dont deserve you" Thats the way they feel guilty. 2)Restless, Cant sleep at night always bothered w/ something. 3)Changing attitude or behaviour..buying new boxer shorts (hahaha) Doing things that he/she usually never do. 4)When she/he talking in her/his cellphone talking so soft or go somewhere else to finish the call.High bills in cellphone,landline. 4)Making lots of alibi: why she/he is late or where she/he needs to go too. These are some sign that you can notice.But then ofcourse you can always ask him/her what bothering him/her.Serious talking can give you very good answers.
• United States
7 Jun 08
If they are sending text messages to another person, or they are on the phone with someone other than their family members, they are cheating. If they are talking to other people and hardly giving you the time of day, they are cheating.
• China
6 Jun 08
well, seems reasonable.
@kun2349 (23475)
• Singapore
6 Jun 08
TO some ple, checking of phone is a privacy.. For me, i think will be, always stopping or not allowing the bf/gf to go up to their house.. It's because the parents may know that he/she has got a bf/gf, but it's not the one whom they know of.. ANd thus, it can be a sign of cheating too..
• Singapore
6 Jun 08
Ya u can do a lot of things including checking their cell phones..u can keep a eye on their activities,whr they go whom they meet ,if they r coming late whr they had been u can cross verify with thier colleagues.
@athinapie (1152)
• Philippines
6 Jun 08
I guess one sign that your partner is cheating that I can think of is when he or she makes a lot of excuses not to see you or go with you. This is really peculiar since if that person loves you then he or she would do his or her best to be with you. But if not then something might be wrong.
• Philippines
6 Jun 08
You will have a gut-feel on whether your spouse/partner cheats on you or not. But the signs are the proof that they're really doing it. I guess if he spends some time away for you, or if he's doing something that has some vague explanations about it, then it's about time to assess everything. The phone-thing that you mentioned is a classic sign, I think. Probably other significant sign would be if he/she starts to fuzz about their appearance. Assuming they're cheating, it's a sure thing that they'd want to look good!