There is an easiest way to handle our mistakes.

@ssh123 (31104)
India
June 6, 2008 9:36am CST
The best way to handle a mistake is to admit it quickly: Not dwell on it Never repeat it Learn from it Never make excuses How to you handle the mistakes.?
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@apsara60 (6613)
• Israel
7 Jun 08
Hi ssh123, How are you. Saw you after long time.......... You are right friend, admitting your mistakes is the best way to get relief from this burden. It is sometimes very difficult to admit them, but as they say, truth always is a winner and if truth is that you made a mistake and if you know that very well, then what is the point of hiding it. I don't mind saying sorry and accepting my fault.....making mistake is not as big mistake, as not accepting your mistake. The sooner you accept the better it is for your mental peace at least we have no guilty couscous and we can sleep peacefully.... Besides, I feel, by accepting our mistakes, we regain respect in the eyes of opposite person.Have a nice day.
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@ssh123 (31104)
• India
7 Jun 08
Very true we gain respect from those to whom we tender our apologies. You have analysed this topic very well and thanks. I am fine and hope this reply of mind finds you in sound spirits. I was conspicuous by absence for more than 2 months.Good day.
@ssh123 (31104)
• India
11 Jun 08
Dear apsara, Your response has been given BR. With warm regards.
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@apsara60 (6613)
• Israel
11 Jun 08
Thank you friend. I think this is the first nice thing that made me happy today.Hope now everything will be well and only well with the grace of God.......Have a great day.
@mimpi1911 (25455)
• India
7 Jun 08
Rightly said! Oh how I wish I could admit my mistakes instantly and save myself from a never ending retribution! Sada, I am learning and it's hard but nothing is impossible. Telling the truth, admitting the mistakes we do require guts, an inner strength. And I feel so much better when I can actually do it. Thanks.
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@apsara60 (6613)
• Israel
7 Jun 08
Dear mimpi.......how are you dear....... Mimpi if you are sure that you have made a mistake, then why to hesitate dear. Kabhi apni mistake maan kar dekho toh sahi, bhoot shaanti milegi.....you see we always feel better after we cry out our pain, similarly we get lot of peace when we accept our mistakes.....surely it needs guts because after accepting mistakes, you don't remain ordinary person, but you become great.......,MAHAN......... Now you will say, why do I call her DD.... now she has started to give me lectures..... but I will still love you dear.
@mimpi1911 (25455)
• India
11 Jun 08
Hi D!! Don't tell like that. I would follow your advice whole heartedly. Of late, I hardly do things that kind of would hurt me. But whatever I did is still bugging me. How are you doing?? Miss you all the while. Love.
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@apsara60 (6613)
• Israel
15 Jun 08
Dear Mimpi , See my PM to you. God bless you.
• India
11 Jun 08
well according to me the best ways to handle our mistakes is to see them like a footstep of success.everytime you do a mistake learn from it and gain more expierience from it so that you can do more better in the future.
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@ssh123 (31104)
• India
11 Jun 08
But one cannot climb too many foot steps! you know what I mean. One cannot afford to repeat the mistakes. Thanks for your interesting response. Regards
• Philippines
7 Jun 08
Like you, i have to learn from my mistake and never do that again. We will never grow if we do not allow ourself to make a mistake and move on.
@ssh123 (31104)
• India
11 Jun 08
Very well said grecychunny. I am thankful to you for your resposne. How do you do? With regards.
@faith210 (11233)
• Philippines
7 Jun 08
Hi ssh123! When I make mistakes, I do think of how I got into it in the first place. I just need to know how and why so I will be able to avoid making the same mistake all over again as much as possible. I don't dwell on it nor justify myself from committing it. I admit the mistakes done. And as much as possible, I won't forget it. I learn from it and move on. Take care and God bless!
@ssh123 (31104)
• India
7 Jun 08
Analysing the mistakes as said by you is very important so that it can be avoided in future. How do you do? How is your husband doing with his cartoon work. Have a nice day.
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@bombshell (11268)
• Germany
6 Jun 08
most of the times i dont accept mistakes but depends on my mood.
@ssh123 (31104)
• India
7 Jun 08
Moods are nothing but state mind reflective of our thoughts. Thanks for participating in this topic.
@bombshell (11268)
• Germany
7 Jun 08
hmmmmmmm a good one!hehehe ok i agree with you!have a nice weekend.
@Hatley (152091)
• Garden Grove, California
14 Jun 08
I admit my mistakes at once then let it go and yes I learn from it too.