when somebody thinks wrongly about you how to deal with it

China
June 6, 2008 8:56pm CST
Each person has his or her personal chanracters,which may not accepted by others.We should understand the differences.These days I feel not so good,because someone misunderstands me.But I tell myself it does not matter.I am who I am.Keeping good traits with me is what I will always do,as well as correcting unperfect features.At the same time,I am looking forward others'opinions.
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• Trinidad And Tobago
7 Jun 08
Just like you I don't like to be misunderstood. I don't think anyone does. The thing that makes us different, is we're sensitive about it. Don't worry, it's just you...BE YOU...YOU'RE WONDERFUL. The people who misunderstand you don't take time to know or understand you. They are'nt worth it! It will hurt and you'll not be able to help that, but give it time. You'll actually grow from it. These people who think they can bring you down are making you stronger! I BELIEVE IN YOU GIRL!!
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• China
7 Jun 08
I am really agree with BeauitifulHeart.You have speaked out what I think.We should never change the way which is right because of others' misundersatbding. BE OURSELVES!That's great!
@Klarenz (261)
• Philippines
7 Jun 08
Just live in such a way that no one would believe them.
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• Philippines
7 Jun 08
When I was younger, I used to get extremely affected when other people misunderstood me. I did everything to let them know my side. I wanted to be on good terms with everyone. As I grew older, I just tend to shrug it off. If they misunderstood, then I don't care. There'll come a time when things will be alright again.
@olivemai (4738)
• United States
7 Jun 08
Try to talk with the person, if they were close to you in any way! This happens too often and nobody is perfect! Imperfection is the norm, and leads to better days! Ask the person if they understand what you meant, and say you're sorry if it will help!