how to convert a friendship into love

India
June 7, 2008 1:49am CST
1) if u care for the partner.
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@o_utsider (372)
• China
4 Dec 08
easy or difficult,it is up to you and your partner.If you give favorable impression to each other,you will be easy to convert a friendship into love. If he/she didn't love you,or he/she has GF/BF,you will be difficult.
• India
24 Apr 09
hey frends..... well i think almost 75 % ppl on earth have been through thid situation wen dey r in luv wid dere frnzz... m also one of dem.... actually i was in luv wid her from first day... wen i saw her....actually she started talking to me... but after dat.. i never let her go out of my life.... we are best friends now... i proposed her once... its after 3-4 months of relationship// but she said dat i m gud as frnd only.....i exxepted dis thing.. and tried to make friendship strong... and ofcourse i have succeeded... now she is my bestest frnd.... we stay togather all day.... but still she is not mu gf... yes it pains sumtimes... but we have a wonderfull relationship.... and one day i m sure dat she will think about me... so i m just playing a role of bestest frnd for her... and one day she will also feel love for me..... and i believe in myself so.... keep on trying but b patient .... it can take years... but it really works... its working for me... and be confident and help ur partner to realise dat u luv her........ best of luckk...
• India
10 Aug 09
Don't waste time by acting like friends...even am in love with a girl for last 8 yrs..I love her madly...at first two yrs she knows it too...but she was in love with someone else...though i am the best friend for her till date..i cant go above that..it pains a lot for me when she tells about the guy whom she is in love with...i started smoking, drinking just to get out of her...but i cant....even cant forget her for a moment...its like living in thrones....so frnds my opinion is to propose her immediately...dont waste time...Be happy if her frndship goes also...bcause if u r in touch till the last it pains more..as in my story..ur entire life will change....am telling this as nobody should suffer as am...."all the best for your success!!!!!"
• India
10 Aug 09
Don't waste time by acting like friends...even am in love with a girl for last 8 yrs..I love her madly...at first two yrs she knows it too...but she was in love with someone else...though i am the best friend for her till date..i cant go above that..it pains a lot for me when she tells about the guy whom she is in love with...i started smoking, drinking just to get out of her...but i cant....even cant forget her for a moment...its like living in thrones....so frnds my opinion is to propose her immediately...dont waste time...Be happy if her frndship goes also...bcause if u r in touch till the last it pains more..as in my story..ur entire life will change....am telling this as nobody should suffer as am...."all the best for your success!!!!!"
@18101989 (700)
• India
7 Jun 08
Well i don't think that love is such a thing that you can convert it to any form like love,hatred or anything else. I think it's the only thing that is pure which come from your inside which you got to feel and no one can tell you that you love him/her. Only if you want to attract a person i think you must care for him/her not so much that the person get irritated ,you must respect her/his decision. You must aways be available for that person whatever is the situation and the most important thing is that you must keep faith on him/her and respect him/her too. Be happy dear 100rabh
• India
10 Jun 08
i have one question 2 u: lets say I start caring for my friend and I will be available to her in any situation. lets say this happens 4-5 times. now she would be thinking that this person helps me in all situations, might be a possibility he loves me (correct). Now one day I propose her, and she accepts. Now its time for them to get into a relationship (mariage). now most of the girls have the question in mind, why does men do not love as much as they used to before marriage. I know this would happen... now what to do.. now I have to convince her .... then what...
@18101989 (700)
• India
13 Jun 08
Well i think that if you love her than this problem will never occur but if you don't give her time from your daily routine than it is obvious that this problem will come in your life too. Dear friend just remember one thing it's a saying in India that you can't clap with one hand what i mean to say is that if a problem is between two person than they both have a little role to play in that problem. It might be true that one has bigger role and other very smaller but you can't deny that you have done nothing wrong.
• China
7 Jun 08
this is really a good question i want to know the answer ,too
@Klarenz (261)
• Philippines
7 Jun 08
When it comes to relationship, everything start from friendship.
• India
7 Jun 08
I don't think its easy to convert , as I have been through a situation of a friend . He wanted to do same but failed and lost friendship too .. So if you are going to start then be alert , don't loose friendship ... Thanks !!!
@zhwbeast (328)
• China
7 Jun 08
In my opinion,we have no way to convert friendship into love just for a short time or a easy way. Because if we want become lover with the partner,you must take the actions by which you could let her know your meaning.And if you want her to accept your request of being lover.It's must after a long touch to understand each other,not just stop at the front of the friend.
@apsara60 (6612)
• Israel
7 Jun 08
hello 100rabh....... Welcome to mylot. Love is not something that you can accomplish by process of conversion...... what I mean to say is that love just happens and it should happen naturally, you cannot force it. If you love your friend and she/he does not know about it, then just continue to be good friend and be more caring. Show her more and more care and some day when you think it is right time to speak to your friend, try to express yourself leaving full choice at her convenience. Tell her that even if she will not accept your love, you will still want to remain her friend. If your love is true, some day you will definitely win your friends heart, so keep trying and best of luck.