need some gf help

United States
June 7, 2008 10:19pm CST
So, my girlfriend and i were making out and i started going up her shirt. she started like shrugging my hand away when i got higher so i asked if that was bothering her. she said "maybe". so i took it as a yes and stopped. but, my question is: how will i know when she'll be ready to go beyond just making out/kissing? will she ever be ready?
5 responses
• India
12 Jun 08
well pal we both are stuck with the same situation. and in my case i din go until liftin da shirt .lol. my gals' mindset belongs to the 80's and shez still not comfortable with me. all these gals expect guys to have a secured life and they are most trust worthy , that we guys don cheat them on marrying. some gals are quite comfortable , they'll let u in. some are afraid of the pre-marriage romance. it all depends on her. she does'nt lyk it, better forget bout it until she sneaks in. that even makes ur hand on the rising ...just wait for her to advance as in i'm doing. gud luck dude!!!
• United States
15 Jun 08
yeah, actually, my last two gf's have cheated on me...
@Allie_xoxo (1064)
• Canada
8 Jun 08
Hey Algo. if she means yes, believe me, she'll let you know. The same goes for whether or not you'll know if she's ready. (She will be btw) hehe
• United States
8 Jun 08
btw, she'll let me go up the back of her shirt and stuff. just not the front. also, she's extremely ticklish, like, i'll hug her and she'll start laughing. she had to fix her belt one time, and started laughing
• India
15 Jun 08
you need more patience for it and just create a romantic atmosphere first in a room.
@SusanLee (1920)
• United States
8 Jun 08
Well son, if she was shrugging your hand away it's obvious she was not comfortable with you handling her like that. As for as when will she be ready. I hope she's never ready. I hope she waits until she's good and married. lol I know that isn't what a young fellow wants to hear. You did ask did ask though. Only she'll know when she's comfortable with that situation. Take care son, and keep your paws to yourself.
• Pakistan
8 Jun 08
I think this is your girlfriend's first time and she is not ready to do it with you. You need more patience for it and just create a romantice atmosphare first in a room. then first start chat and love talks. Then kissing and just do kissing till then she becomes so hot. Then try to rub her boobs in shirt. If she feels ok with it then you should go ahead. If she is still not ready for it then you can direct to her about it. Because if you will try it again and again then it can be a reason of your break up. Thanks