Do you believe that marriages with a huge age differnce can work?

Thank god there is someone like me out there......I'm 33 yrs old and he is 57 yrs old. We have been together for 6 yrs total, but we've bought a home together 2 1/2 yrs ago. We want to get married, but not now, the timing is not right. I often questioned that myself, but I think if you enjoy each others company and enjoy doing the same things with one another then it could work, just like any other couple who are closer in age. He is my best friend, and closest confidante. I fell in love with who he is, not his age. I have 2 children who live with us, and his children are grown and between my age. We get along great, his kids have accepted me and call my kids their little brothers, so it's really worked out for us. I think we're happy. I wish we knew more May/December couples close to our area, we can be friends with and do things together.

My step father is 27 years older than my mom, and they have been together 25 years now, they actually just got married 2 years ago. So yes absolutely it can and will work as long as you love each other.

I believe with any doubt about it. The key or the magic of a relationship is in love and friendship. So with your history, I have no doubt that my faith in love should stays on.

It depends on when in the life cycle the age difference occurs and example: a friend of mine (he was 36 at the time) married a young lady who was 22. They were divorced before thier 2nd year anniversary. However I have another set of friends who married when he was in his late forties and she was in her early thirties and they are still happily married 20+ years later.

Hello, I must first congratulate you both for the huge success in your three years old marriage despite the wide age margin. Basically, I am of opinion that a man should be older than his wife but not with a very big age margin since Adam was first created before Eve according to the bible. In terms of big age margin, although we all have our individual choices, marriage is all about being compartible with your partner in all department ranging from age, marturity, intellectual, religion etc.. It might not ethical for me to marry my grand mother's age maid or my dauther's age maid, abbbbby what do you think........

well if you going to ask me i much preffer to have relationship that older than me (but unfortunately i fall inlove wit the man same age as me) because in my case i'm a little bit childish and i love to be pampered not to pamper anyone. Good luck to your realtionship God Bless

A marriage is not about the age but about how mature the people involved are, if your love is strong it can handle just about anything, my husband and I are not too far apart, six years but it's not even about the age it's about who we are when we are together. Good luck and I hope you have many many wonderful years together, enjoy life and each other, love is precious.

i don't know other people that are married and have a big age difference, but i think it can work, as long as you both love eachother it will work. seems to me that u 2 love eachother so no problemo =D

I believe if there is love any marriage can work but there will all alway be problems with any ages but if there is enough love and respect it will work.

Good luck to you both, may you have many happy years together!

i don't belive, .

Hmmm. I don't know. They say age is just a number! And congrats on your relationship!

My mom and dad were 10 years apart. Mom older. My hubby and I are 7 years apart. I'm older...lol We have a lot in common and enjoy each others company. I had a problem with the age difference not him. He made me see that age is but a number it shouldn't matter when love is involved.

My boyfriend is 15 years younger. We are together for 10 years. I think it does not matter.

my niece and her boyfriend is 21 yrs. apart she's 22 and he's 43 and they get along great they love each other and that is all that matters. I agree age is just a number because love can conquer all so congratulations and god bless i hope you guys enjoy each other and life as well Life is to short not to love each other and enjoy life no matter what anyone else thinks

yes i believe they do as me and my husband have a big age difference i am 39 and he is 28 we have been married for 3 years now and it is going great.All that matters is that your both adults.

It doesnt matter what others say, as long as both of you are true to each other and happily in love!!Age is just a number! Contgratulations and my Best Wishes to you for an everlasting love!

of course it can work. i have dated many different age groups and the only problem i found is with inmature younger women, besides that it is ok

age doesn't matters as long as both of them are young at heart that is love each other

I think that it is wonderful that you have found someone to love. Age really doesn't matter - it is just a number. How we feel inside is what matters. One should always follow their heart in matters of love, and even a larger gap than 30 years to me is not a problem as long as the people involved love each other. ^_^