People are like buses- none for ages and then two come along at once

June 8, 2008 7:09pm CST
About 2 years ago I was single, it had been months since my last relationship, & I was wantin to start dating again - well I would go out with my friends to like clubs & partys, but did not find even one person interested in me - and then all of a sudden a friend of a friend of mine started taking an interest in me and even tho he wasn't my type I quite liked him aswell so we would message each other and flirt & I really liked him, but then wouldn't you no someone I had an interest in previously who I had found attractive asked me out aswell!! In the end I had to come to a decision and I choose the one I was attracted to as he was also such a lovely person. I am still with him today but I do sometimes wonder how different my life would be if I choose the other person & would I be any happier but I've came to the conclusion that "the grass is greener on the other side" so probaly not:))
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@KrauseHome (32392)
• United States
9 Jun 08
Well, a lot of time in life we get in trouble when we start thinking about the what ifs. We need to move on with our life as God presents it to us, and go from there. It could very well be, you are now Happy with the one you are with, as that is the man you are supposed to be with. I also think that you need to quit thinking about the other person and enjoy your life as it is now. You can never go back you must only move forward, so if you want to make the best of it, you need to be proud of how things they are now, and continue to improve them.
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9 Jun 08
Yeah, I suppose everything happens for a reason and if I wasn't meant to be with the one I'm with I wouldn't be. Well, I am happy at the moment and I will definitely appreciate how my life is at the minute more, thanks =)
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@spalladino (17927)
• United States
9 Jun 08
Life takes so many twists and turns that you can't waste time thinking about the "what ifs" along the way. As long as you are happy now, that's all that matters.
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9 Jun 08
Your right that is all that matters, thanks =)
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@hcpoirot (1562)
• Indonesia
9 Jun 08
You already made the right decision, you chose the man who liked you and you liked him also from the start. Life can be so strange sometimes, that nobody can even predicted what will happen next.
9 Jun 08
Yes and I do feel like I made the right decision =)
@olivemai (4738)
• United States
9 Jun 08
It can still go either way! Life is long, many years go by and who knows what will happen in the future? You are learning to be happy, and that is good!
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