baby boy or girl

@mulau2u (1459)
Malaysia
June 11, 2008 11:39pm CST
hi there... do you ever think for your first baby. every single person maybe expect their first baby. actually, i don't care about the gender the most important are my baby healthy.
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@dandan07 (1908)
• China
12 Jun 08
though it is a long to go for me to have my frist baby, I am still interested in the quesition. I hope I can have a baby boy first, for there are few men in my family, I really want to change the present situation. But taking carte of a baby boy is much harder than taking car of a baby girl.
• Australia
12 Jun 08
I don't know where you got your information but i have heard the exact opposite - apparently, little boys are a lot easier to handle than little girls. They're also supposed to be less fussy & when they get to teenage years, girl's are supposed to cause the most trouble for their parents - fashion, make up, going out, boyfriends etc! I'll have to let you know though - we have a little girl now (she's just gone 2) & we'll have a little boy in a couple of weeks so i can tell you which is the easier of the 2. BUT it will only be my experience - all kids are different & the way you raise them will determine the way they grow up & behave.
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@mulau2u (1459)
• Malaysia
13 Jun 08
i want a baby boy first after that i want a baby girl, the reason is simple for me, it is just like this, i need a baby boy first for him to take care my baby girl when they grow up later, the baby girl can help my wife to do homeworks. simple but great huh. ;)
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@dandan07 (1908)
• China
13 Jun 08
Taking care of a child is not a easy task. Girls will spend much time, energy and money on things to help make them look beautiful. But there are more chances for them to help their mother to do the housework and arrange the family. Compared with boys, they pay more attention to their family,and spend less money. For when they have date, in most cases boys will pay the bill for both. While to the boys, they will not help their mother to run the family, and they will spend a great money on shoes, sports equipments and having party with friends and dating with girls. You can not get rid of these, for it is the main reason for a boy be popular in his circle. But if you want have several children in your life, a boy first is really a good choice, for they can grow up early and give his brother and sister more sense of safety.
• Philippines
13 Jun 08
I already have a baby boy but if i were to choose what my first baby would be, i would prefer a baby girl. I just love to dress baby girls and there are lots of stuff you can buy for a girl. Also, many says that its much easier to take care of a baby girl rather than a baby boy. But, Im happy with my baby boy right now and im looking forward in having a baby Girl!
@mulau2u (1459)
• Malaysia
13 Jun 08
yeah i think it is easy to handle baby girl then baby boy, my baby boy will easy to cry when he woke up and not easy to get sleep back ;)
@Gemmygirl1 (2870)
• Australia
12 Jun 08
I think you're right, the health of the baby is all that matters but we were hoping our first would be a boy - only because of all my partner's siblings - none of them had given birth to a boy - there were 5 girls but that was it! We thought a boy would be a nice addition to the family :) Our first baby ended up being a girl though & i don't think it has made much of a difference - luckily for us though, we're expecting baby #2 in about 3 1/2 weeks & we're having a boy. I guess my partner & i are just lucky that we'll have 1 of each - especially since 2 of my partner's siblings have ended up with 3 girls before having a boy.
@mulau2u (1459)
• Malaysia
13 Jun 08
it is like a tradition, if all our baby is a girl that mean they will leave our house to be with their husband when they getting marriage, must be there is a boy to take care our house when we are now longger with them anymore.