how can u get along with a different personality person ?
June 12, 2008 2:37am CST
i am a modest and silent people , i dont like boast and speak loudly , of course i very care about courtesy. but i found that is hard to me to get along with my roommate who is like to boast ,loud speak ,and very rude .the most make me headache thing is that he like a punk . so i am very agonize that how to live with him more happy. so can you tell me that how can you get along with a different personality person ?
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12 Jun 08
Seems like apretty difficult situation, even im in the almost saame type of situation, even im quiet and calm and shy, but my husband is just the opposite, but the thing is, he is my husband so i upright tell him when his behaviour is at bad, and i dont even think a bit of what he would think, as i can do that, but with a room amte its very difficult, so just try and be with ur self as much as you can...if possible try to change rooms or just try to say in a very nice way if something is bothering u personally.
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12 Jun 08
I have a hard time getting along with some people. I have this "whatever" attitude. If I find someone is like you are describing your roommate as I just can't be bothered with them and usually try to avoid them in the future. I'm generally quiet, but can get rowdy at times. I don't mind other people like that. I just like braggarts or people who lack respect for others. I could not live with a person like that. I would end up blowing up at him which would get me nowhere. Being as you do have to live with him you could try to sit him down and explain that his rudeness bothers you. If that doesn't work I would probably treat him as he treats me. Sorry I don't have anything better to suggest, but I think some personality conflicts are just too volatile.