If you lose someone whome you cant live without, will you suicide??

@naaadh (217)
United States
June 13, 2008 8:11am CST
This is something which happened a week back here in Maldives. A boy (i kindah know him, but not a friend of mine) was in love with a girl. And i think they have spent like 4 years together and they were a perfect match. I used to see them riding on their bike near my house. Makes me wanna cry when i see them. So what happened was, this girl died a few weeks back. No idea why. Hospitals here sucks, and the doctors said she had a heart attack, while everyone knows she don't have any cardiac related problems. And she is way too young and in love to die of a heart attack. She died and i think it must have given the boy a hard time. I never see him on the road or anywhere after that day. And last week Sunday some neighbors found him dead. He hung himself on to a tree by neck and killed himself. I was horror-struck. In one way i didn't blame the boy. Cause after such loving days with his girl friend, and when she suddenly dies (it was a sudden death), i know how much it will hurt him inside. But what i feel is he shouldn't have killed himself, cause i know in heaven the girl will not want the boy to die. She would want him to live his life and die when the time comes. But he couldn't stand it and killed himself. If it was a test on him by God, then he failed the test. What do you think about this story. Do you have such a strong lover? And if he or she dies like that, will you have the courage to go on...? As for me, i don't know what will happen to me if my girl dies. But ill live as long as i can. And i wont commit suicide. If i die ill die of a heart attack.
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@ceej310 (121)
• Philippines
13 Jun 08
i must admit, the thought has crossed my mind. I'm with a guy now who is more than amazing. I never thought that the man of my dreams would ever come along, but he did. I have never been so thankful for a man in my life. We will be married soon and I know for sure that we'll be happy. But anything may happen to him (knock on wood), I must admit now that I might not be able to live without him. He is truly the best thing that has ever happened to me. Losing him would just kill me.
@ceej310 (121)
• Philippines
14 Jun 08
Thanks for the advice. i'll keep that in mind, and will do that soon.
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@naaadh (217)
• United States
14 Jun 08
Your most welcome :)
• India
13 Jun 08
im sure it was just too hard for him to take it and im sure i wont be able to take it if i m in a similar situation but surely i will not commit sucide however hard it may be cos that is not the solution.But well..i cant say what will happen to me in such a case cos...we never know...
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@rsa101 (16841)
• Quezon City, Philippines
14 Jun 08
A very tragic story more like the story of Romeo and Juliet though in a much simpler setting. Well I think he should not have done that I really think that there is something more from him and he failed to see it and only look at the present and never looked forward. But, I can truly understand the feelings its just he succumb to his loneliness and maybe his mind just shut down.
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@jdyrj777 (6556)
• United States
14 Jun 08
That is really sad. I agree with you that the girl wouldn't have wanted him to die. He was too broken hearted to see that there was so much life ahead of him yet. That must have been a very deep love.
@jdyrj777 (6556)
• United States
14 Jun 08
Almost forgot, no i wouldn't have killed myself.
@Lock_Heed (210)
• United States
14 Jun 08
NO sense in that. One life was lost why make it two. Your loved one would want you to go on and live your life. You should respect those wishes.
@MsTickle (24994)
• Australia
21 Jun 08
Perhaps she betrayed him and so he killed her. Perhaps he killed her in a way that was undetectable to the authorities. He was filled with pain and sorrow and anguish for what he had done and so he took his own life.... Who knows what happened? We cannot know what killed the girl, we cannot know what was in his heart. It is all guess work and conjecture.
@muxicka (216)
• Philippines
16 Jun 08
I think it would be best to try accept things the way it happened. It's hard, but you need to gather your inner self to deal with such a problem. Who knows what may happen after that tragic incident, maybe you might find another lover who would fill that empty space in your heart, and he/she might show you greater love than who you are with before. Life goes on, so so must us. You won't ever see the end of the road if you try to commit to end you life right away at the loss of your loved one.
@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
15 Jun 08
This is a very sad story and I am sorry to hear of it. But the only person that I am willing to die for, promises never to leave me. That is God almighty.
• Australia
15 Jun 08
oh that is so sad, and sweet! It's like a real life romeo and juliet but reversed. I really hope that there is an after life that we can share together, i dont think i could do it, i just think about my son and know it is the wrong thing to do. i hope these guys though live happily ever after.
• India
14 Jun 08
MAybe.....maybe not.........but i'll hav 2 surely think a hundred times for people who care for me !!
• India
14 Jun 08
really it is the worst felling to loose someone whom u love. but sucide is crime u are wasting ur life the precious gift of life. i know it is difficult to live without a person u love but try to live and help other so that u fulfill ur duty toward god. have a respectful life and never ever stop loving him or her not because he is no more with you, because love never says that u will always stay together but love is a bond which is from hearth and more mental than physical so if he or she is not with u physicaly why u worry, if u really love him or her . he or she will always be there in ur memory
• Philippines
14 Jun 08
Hell no!Maybe just go a little crazy(^^,)
• Philippines
14 Jun 08
Good day. I don't know and I don't really want to fin out. I know it's gonna be hard to live without the one you love, It's downright unbearable.
• India
14 Jun 08
Generally,Women wont get heart attacks,here as your story tells there is something wrong between both of there relationship.Ofcourse what is the fact no body can describe,I feel sorry for what ever happened and may god give peace to there soul's.
@vimal2k6 (391)
• India
14 Jun 08
No, i never. Your are born in this world to live. You could not die because of someone u like lot. Sadness never continues to entire rest part of your life. So always be happy to get good thoughts and name.
@longbangod (1791)
• Philippines
14 Jun 08
This is a very tragic story. I won't blame the boy for what he did. But I still think its not right. Our life is only borrowed and we don't have the right to end it by ourselves. I just hope that if this happen to anyone, the concern will be very strong enough to accept it. He/she should seek God's help and guidance in order to be able to accept even how painful it is.
@besslee (24)
• China
14 Jun 08
It may be a little mean to say that, but I just want to say "nobody can't live without anyone in this world".
@myliezl0903 (2731)
• Philippines
14 Jun 08
of course not,.life should moved on.,theres a reason for everything.,
• Malaysia
14 Jun 08
Well i will not suiside if i lost my belover...but it is a painful moment to me to go througth my life. Is very painful losing or separate or divource with your belover. But as a human losing and founding new person in life is part of the cycle of life...so accept the fact what will happening to the perosn that is closes to you, couse you will never known what will happening to them tomorrow, take it as a memory moment if something bad happening to your belover..a painful memory, if you suside your belover or the person that closes to you is already pass away....would't live again.
@maquisa (316)
• Philippines
14 Jun 08
i don't know what will i do if this will happen to me,everybody may say stupidity to make such thing or kill myself,but because you truly love the person and can't live without him/her maybe i can't think better or i may do the same thing but not totally killed myself but try live on my own and nobody will see me again,may the Lord bless true love!