If your partner die in front of you, what would you do?:|

@ieeko89 (1054)
Malaysia
June 14, 2008 7:39am CST
I don't know why i post this kind of discussion. Maybe i just wanna know what would happen to some people if they face this kind of experience. As far for me, I don't even know what would happen to me if my bf die, IN FRONT OF ME. I don't know. Even next to me, I'll for sure gonna cry for a quite long. Maybe takes a few years for me to move on. Herm, yeah, it will takes a few years for me to move on and dating with someone else. Deep inside, I'll always remember him and I'll keep praying so that i could have the guts to stand by my own self. But i wont suicide. Hurting myself, that's maybe:) - Tell the person you love, that you really love them before it's too late:) Well, I love you b!
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@taqinaka (429)
• Malaysia
14 Jun 08
Hi baby.Well,if you die in front of me?Wow.Tough question.I will definetely cry like a madman.I will definetely hug u like crazy and keep shouting don't go.Please don't go.I bet that time,if people want me to let you go,they will need more than 20 guys!LOL.Well,you are my lover,now im telling you what is my reaction if you die in front of me.I try not to think of it because if it happens,it would be really hard for me baby.So,from my heart...I LOVE YOU .
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@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
14 Jun 08
;') Now you make my eyes watery. I love you more baby and i don't wanna let you go either if you ever die in front of me.
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• Malaysia
14 Jun 08
Hi eeko, i see taqinaka is your boyfriend. well, I always you guys be happy and good couple for ever after.
• Malaysia
14 Jun 08
ala sweet :D
@wisconsin26 (3859)
• United States
14 Jun 08
First thing is first CPR, I would do what ever it would take to bring that person back it doesn't matter who.. That's me.. I have experience people die before my eyes.. When I was 12 years old my grandmother passed away from a long batter of cancer.. It isn't easy to see things like that it's very hard and all you want to do is hold the person and wish they back to life.. I know I've done this.. My grandmother taught me so much that I will never forget it NEVER!! Seeing a person die right before you makes you think twice about life that I do know.. When my father passed away he had a massive heart attack two years ago 2 days ago to be exact.. When I heard he has a massive heart attack I dropped and couldn't get myself back up.. It's very very hard to go through things like this being as close are you are to a person and never ever expecting it to happen to a love one.. Your very right on telling someone you love them and yes before it's to late.. You should also tell them every day no matter if you don't want too or not it isn't ever enough to express the words to the ones your really love.. I know I wish I would of told my dad I loved him more than just a few times I did..Now I can't even tell him because he's no longer here but I do talk to him in prayers and I know he can hear me even though he's not here, He does know.. I am also sorry about getting off the subject cause my partner hasn't passed so I don't know what it would be like but I do know I'd cry and be hurt with anger that he was taken away from me and more than likely cry until I couldn't cry and more..
@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
16 Jun 08
I'm sorry for your lost. My eyes are watery while reading your post. I know exactly how you feel. My grandmother passed away when i was the same age as you. She got diabetes. And i saw she's dying in front of my eyes. And the next thing i know, she's gone. I never have the chance to tell her that I'm sorry for everything that I've done to her and from the bottom of my heart, i do love her. While my father's side, my grandfather, he passed away when i was 6years old. I didn't know much that time so I'm too not sad, but after months, i feel like missing something in my life. Cause I'm close to him and yet, he's gone;') It's okay, I'm here to hear your problem:) Thanks for your post anyway.
• United States
16 Jun 08
Those were just my experiences growing up awful ones but yeah ours are about the same and thank you for you replying back to what I did post...
@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
17 Jun 08
:) No a big problem. Thanks for sharing.
• United States
15 Jun 08
idk what i would do but if that happened to me i would loose it my hubby is my life and i don't ever want to live without him but if he was taken form me i would hut down the person responcable for killing him and make him pay ... as for dating again that would never happen i would devote my life to my kids and that would be it because like i told my hubby in the beginning god sent him to me in a time in my life when i had no one or nothing and he saved my life and to take that from me well then i'm just mot ment to be happy . i hpe this answered ur ?
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@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
16 Jun 08
Thanks for your post. That's good. Revenge for your partner. I would do the same thing. And yeah, that's so sweet of you. He's lucky to have you in his life:)
• China
15 Jun 08
i never think up of this kind of experience. in that case, i think i will prefer to bury him and then do something for him.
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@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
16 Jun 08
This does happen, we just have to be ready.
• United States
14 Jun 08
Sounds weird but my first reaction would be to grab him and not let go. And cry a lot.
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@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
16 Jun 08
:) So do i.
@luisln01 (43)
• United States
14 Jun 08
I would die with her :-(
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@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
16 Jun 08
:(( I know how you feel. Die together is better than one on us go first, right?
• Canada
14 Jun 08
Probably scream and go completely insane. Denial and all that. I'd probably end up going off the deep end and killing myself. Unless we had children. I wouldn't leave them like that.
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@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
16 Jun 08
You would kill yourself? Oh dear, that's not gonna solve anything. Don't do such thing. Altho your world seems ended, but you have to remind yourself that they do hope that we could live as much as we could and wouldn't like if we hurt/kill ourself. :)
@virces (13)
• Indonesia
14 Jun 08
Get started anything i can do, because with like that we can forgot anything not exceptly that our friend. It's means i'm not crying or do wrong way to forgot it. I hope believe if a "GOD" with us.
@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
14 Jun 08
Good, you must be strong then:)
@virces (13)
• Indonesia
14 Jun 08
Just like "Risalah" said : "be strong with anything problem is gived from a GOD for you"
@virces (13)
• Indonesia
14 Jun 08
Crying is look like loosser and that not be finished anything? i hope you have something to do for dissapeared your a poor....
@vjindia (18)
• India
15 Jun 08
i will never let her die ! no one can take her life not even god !!!!
@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
16 Jun 08
:| You know you can do nothing if God takes her away from you. I know it would be horrible and hard you to accept it. But if God has takes her away from you, don't be angry to HIM. He has planned it all. And yet, you could tell yourself that He takes her away because HE loves her.
• India
16 Jun 08
God can't take her away because he loves her because i love her more than God !
@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
17 Jun 08
:|
• United States
16 Jun 08
To tell you the truth, I wouldn't know what I'd do until something like that would happen. I know it would take a long time to get over. And as for getting remarried, been there once and working on my second. I think that's enough.
@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
17 Jun 08
Yeah, everybody wouldn't know what to expect if this happens. I make this discussion so that people would think and plan what to do if it's happen instead of being stone and looking at their partner lay down breathless. Thanks for sharing anyway:)
@chej18 (915)
• United States
16 Jun 08
Hi Ieeko89, I think i am going to cry very loud,And holding him in my arms asking not to leave me.I cant even imagine its hurting to much to think that he is dying infront of me.I think i would be in trauma for more years. I will ask for help,i will call 911,fire department,doctor,nurse i will call everybody else to keep him alive.
@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
17 Jun 08
Yes, trauma for years? Well i guess same goes to me. I wont dating with someone else until i had recover from this. ;| I hope it wont happen to us.
• Australia
16 Jun 08
I'd prefer to be there when my partner passed on. That way, I'd know the last thing he heard and saw was me. Obviously, I'd be a mess for a while, but giving him a more relaxed send off to the eternal rest would be a priority for me. Can't have him coming back to haunt me and annoying me because I turned away from him.
@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
17 Jun 08
Yes, i agree with you. The last thing that he heard and saw if it was us, we wouldn't miserable so much, and yet, we could tell them how much do we love them for the last time. Thanks for sharing;)
@jalucia (1435)
• United States
16 Jun 08
I don't even know. I know that for a good few moments I would try to convince myself that it wasn't true, and that things would be alright ... like they always are. I hope to never have to go through this. I, actually, hope to never lose any more people that I love - including my man. But, it's inevitable. My cousins discovered my Grandmother when she passed away. Sometimes I wonder how people deal with losing someone so close to them. but, somehow they go on. and, I suppose I will too. Or, I'll become one of those people that was never the same after losing someone important.
@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
16 Jun 08
Yes, i hope we have the strength if we ever face this kind of situation.
@vanities (11387)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Jun 08
i dont know what to react!!!i love my husband so much!! i really dont want to comment on this..i cross the bridge when i get there
@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
16 Jun 08
I know that you're sad thinking of this, but this does happened to some certain people that has to face this experience. Sorry if i makes you scared. But this is life. What lives, will die someday. Sorry again:|
15 Jun 08
it is hard to say because i don't want him die.maybe i will send him to hospital immediately doctors can do what i can not to save him.but i really do not no how to do.
@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
16 Jun 08
Sometimes we just do nothing. That's why i post this discussion so that all people know that this might happen to their life and they should think what would they do if that day comes. Thanks smartdaniel. Enjoy myloting:)
15 Jun 08
I dont know why you post this question...any the question is purely relative and cant generallise....If I would be the man,I will felt very sad about her sometime my heart get collapsed.......
@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
16 Jun 08
Is it wrong to post this kind of discussion? I don't know why some of people doesn't like my discussion but yet give me some responded just to ask me why in the world i post this discussion. Mylot is free to post anything right? Why can't we post about something that does happened to some certain people? We should think about this sometimes. It may happen to us too. But yeah, thanks for your responded.
@senses (840)
• Philippines
15 Jun 08
I would cry a river! It would be a very very sad experience I believe.
@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
16 Jun 08
Yes, It would;|
@balasri (26553)
• India
15 Jun 08
The inevitable always loom in our minds.We always fear in our secret of losing our dear ones and pray that it should not happen.This feeling every passionate human has to undergo.May be to be good in the life span given to us as a gift.
@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
16 Jun 08
Yeah, thanks Balasri:)
@TessWhite (3147)
• United States
14 Jun 08
Can we pretend its my exhusband and I'm still the beneficiary on his life insurance??? Sorry - LOL - Couldn't resist.
@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
16 Jun 08
Haha!:PP Funny:)
• Malaysia
14 Jun 08
its gonna be hard for me to believe that he's gone.i'll keep crying while i hug him tightly.as for that moment im sure all those sweet memories gonna linger in my mind and that's gonna make me cry like hell even more.i seriously don't know what im gonna do,to think about it actually hurts me.i might be so sad,and have to be alone for quite some time.well,its not easy to going through my daily life without the one that im used to be with.but life must go on,just hoping that i could have the guts and strength to :)
@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
14 Jun 08
I know exactly how you feel:') I would probably do the same thing. Well, i wish that day doesn't have to come at all:')
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