Unusual love affair

Philippines
June 15, 2008 3:41am CST
If you happened to fall in love with a gay or a lesbian would you try to win him and her or would you let it pass?
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14 responses
@focjop20 (233)
• Puerto Rico
16 Jun 08
Just be Happy with friendship, that all there is and probably will be.
• Philippines
17 Jun 08
yes very true.
@ayrin03 (318)
• Philippines
15 Jun 08
hmmm.. love is not like a rain if you miss you can wait for another. Love is something that really comes to life once and sometimes seldom..If you really love the person you will fight for it. You will never think twice. No importance about what age, gender and even what's the lifestyle of the person you love. It's a good feeling being inlove.
• Philippines
15 Jun 08
good day I would agree on you on this one.
@sugarfloss (2140)
• Malaysia
15 Jun 08
hello blackmantra_x,If I happened to fall in love with a homosexual I wouldn't try to win him/her back cos she wouldn't be emotionally attached to me would they?
• Philippines
15 Jun 08
good day that's a hard question to answer
• India
15 Jun 08
That would be a pretty difficult situation, but if he is a gay, the n he is...may b for Loves sake, i might try to win over him, but thats who he is, and even if things go fine for the moment they might go wrong too. So i guess i would let it pass. I mean if a girl fell in love with me, and wanted to win over me, its just way outta question, this is who i am ..so i will be...i guess thats how it works for any1...
• Philippines
15 Jun 08
good day. we have the same thing in mind.
@donsky14 (5964)
• Philippines
15 Jun 08
Hypothetically speaking? Well, if I'm really in love with that person, then of course...I will win him or her. Cause I'm the kind of person who'll do anything for love. Been through a lot actually just to be with the man that I love right now. But that's a different story...anyway, yeah, fight for love.
• Philippines
15 Jun 08
good day. yeah go girl.
• United States
15 Jun 08
Do you mean if I fell for a gay guy? Well, seeing as he's gay I would probably try to let it pass lol. I can't imagine anyone chaning such a big part of their life for me. I really don't think that it would ever work out if I fell for a gay guy, because I wouldn't want to try and change who he was. It's just a part of him that I would accept, and I'd move on. I might still remain friends with him, but I would defeniatly try to get rid of the other feelings for him.
• Philippines
15 Jun 08
good day. It's a reality and I can't blame you if you would not want to change him for who he's not.
@16031981 (449)
• Jamaica
16 Jun 08
its kinda complicated if i didnt no at first and found out afterwards then i would fight hard to win that person over because you have to fight for what you want, on the otherhand if i knew then that would be a difficult task.
• India
16 Jun 08
Ok as joy we can enjoy the pals talking about gays or lesbian,but if it is practical then its imposible.
• United States
16 Jun 08
Oh, that is hell on earth. I wouldn't tell him that I have a crush on him. If he is gay, then he isn't into me and it would be impossible for him to Want me.
@luluwow (165)
• United States
15 Jun 08
I would certainly hope one would have enough respect for themselves and the other involved to be a genuine human... how could you even think that your could "win" him or her. It is not a contest and gay people are not something you should think you can, or want to change? Silly.
@Ravenladyj (22992)
• United States
15 Jun 08
I would just let it pass...trying to con a gay man into becoming straight for me is not only self absorbed on my part but also utterly disrespectful as well...
@Tianna2 (1274)
• United States
15 Jun 08
I really cant see myself falling for someone that wouldnt want to be with me in the first place. I would have to let him go, I would never try to convince a guy to be something he cant be. It would just get worst! Cheers, Tianna
@maquisa (316)
• Philippines
15 Jun 08
for me i'll try my best to win him,why not and they don't care i love him eh,it's my choice...
@cryw0lf (1302)
• United Kingdom
15 Jun 08
If i fell in love with a gay guy then, depending on how he acted around me (Just matey -or- maybe a little more) would determine if i acted on my feelings. When i first met my boyfriend, he told me he was gay (as a joke) but i totally fell for it. I felt sad mainly because i became really attached to him and wanted to be more then just friends. Thank god though :)