what do you think about having affairs with work collegues ?

June 16, 2008 7:59am CST
Having a relationship with collegue is fine or digusting, unprofessional, and just not needed or it really depends on the attraction between both people?
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@buldwgz (1483)
• United States
30 Jun 08
Having a relationship with someone that one works with can make things very complicated at times. There is nothing really wrong with it, but it can lead to problems, especially if one person is a supervisor over the other. Now, if either is already in a relationship, then that is wrong on a whole other level.
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@cdparazo (5769)
• Philippines
17 Jun 08
Having an affair with a colleague is grossly wrong of either of the parties involved is married or is committed to someone else. However, I don't find anything wrong with it if both are free and unattached. I would say go for it and never mind the gossip the others. As long as you are not hurting someone or is not doing something that is wrong then go for it.
@lvnstn (35)
• United States
16 Jun 08
an affair implies the person or person is married and then it is not ok ever to do such things just in case i missed the part here you meant this was about to peeps not in commited relationship with anoher then i think that a relationship between colloeagues is a pain in the but...its distracting and then hard to deal with them if they dont worek out
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• United States
16 Jun 08
If both parties are single and they can be mature about it if it doesn't work out I think it is okay to have a relationship with a coworker. But most of the time when this goes on one or both people get hurt if it doesn't work out and it makes working together hard. If both or one of the people are married I definitely do not advise a hook up because people get hurt and it complicates the work place. Any one having an affair is looking for trouble and it will eventually find them.
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@spalladino (17927)
• United States
16 Jun 08
It's not wise to have a relationship with a collegue because, if it doesn't work out, you're stucking seeing each other every day at work. I wouldn't recommend it but I don't find it to be unprofessional unless it's with someone you supervise.
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