Yes we broke up but I still love her... I know I always will...

New Zealand
June 17, 2008 9:19am CST
How many of you have used this statement over and over again? How many of you broke up with someone days, weeks, months or even years and is still in love with that person to this very day? How many of you promised yourself that he/she will be the last one you'll ever love and kept that promise after all these years? Share your views or your stories...
3 responses
@suhascg (227)
• Australia
17 Jun 08
hi drsparkle, i agree with the firt part of your discussion.. its been about 3 years since i broke up with my ex-girlfriend and i know that i will love her all my life, and i will always care for her to be happy where ever she is.. but i dont quite agree with that last sentence.. have a good day!!! cheers!!!
• New Zealand
17 Jun 08
thanks for the response... I'm glad to know you agree with me at some point but I'm very curious to know why you don't agree with the last sentence...
@suhascg (227)
• Australia
17 Jun 08
after you break up with some one, initially you tend to think that way but gradually you realise that life goes on!! you never know you can fall in love once again, with a better person and you can be more happier than the previous time round..
• New Zealand
17 Jun 08
I understand... thanks for reminding me about that... =)
@subha12 (18463)
• India
18 Jun 08
i have never thought of this. Actually i had nver been to any relationship. i can y=understand your feeling. what Can I say more about this? You loved her truly with heart. its unfortunate that you broke up.
• New Zealand
18 Jun 08
yeah... it was... but yet I always think back and wonder maybe I did do something wrong...
• United States
17 Jun 08
I have had very few love's each of them special in there own unique way. And I have been blessed that I have loved and still love. These men to me where my world for years, and even though we are not together anymore. I would want nothing more then the best for them, with all the happiness a life can provide. There are times in my freedom of singularity that I feel as if I shall never be able to love again, and that my heart could not bare to share itself in the manner that it had twice before. My first love was with a man who taught me so much about myself. He was gentle and kind and above all else he had a smile and a dispostion that would scare my personnal demons away. I loved him with my entire being, and that is why I broke up with him. He deserved to live a life that would find him blessed happiness and freedom. But to this day I still love him he being my first love, I know I always will. My second love was the man I married, and had commited myself too. He was a rock in the middle of a turbulent sea. And even though the storm raged wildly we held on for as long and as tight as we could. But things just became so out of control. He was my best friend, and in many ways he still is. And even though he and I have been seperate now for two years. I am having a terrible time moving on to find new love. I would like to think my heart will one day soar again with love. But there is a vast chance that I shall just hold on to the memory of love, and somehow that to will be ok.
• New Zealand
17 Jun 08
Memories... hmm... memories can both be happy and painful at he same time... sometimes it's the only strand the makes you hold on... and sometimes it's the only strand the would bind you to the past for so long that you'll lose a lot of time without being able to move on... and yet for some people it can help them move on... For the past years of my life... ever since I understood the romantic meaning of love... I never forgot about the ones who were so special to me... the things I did for them... the things they did for me... as well as those they did to me... I hold on to the memories because those are the only things that they left me... To this very day I care for them... but of course there are some things that have changed... But with my most recent ex... I'm still holding on hoping someday she'd realize my worth and come back to me... and if the day comes I know I couldn't resist welcoming her back with widely open arms... I love her so much... I am not certain if it's just because it's still too fresh... but right now all I understand and believe in is that I do truly love her... yes I admit I am bitter at some point... I am bitter because she's no longer mine... but I'm trying my best to at least be the best friend that I promised her I'll always be... so that I could continue to keep the most solid words I ever said to her... that I WILL NEVER LEAVE... just as it is engraved on our friendship ring it is engraved deep within my mind, my heart and my soul... and I believe someday whether she comes back or not the bitter me would become better...