I am going to be an aunt again......

United States
June 17, 2008 5:18pm CST
So my future SIL calls today to tell us ....she is pregnant. She had been told she would never be able to have children of her own and she had adopted an adorable little girl who is now three years old. Now she is going to have one of her own. My brother is being a butthole about it (his kids are pretty much grown my niece is 23 and nephew is 17). We see it as a blessing but not him. He is just a jerk. We told her if she is put on bedrest to come here and be with us cause we know he won't lift a finger to help her and take care of the other little one. It is a highrisk pregnancy so it is a possibility. My future SIL is 2 years younger than me (well almost 3 years I will be 38 next month and she just turned 35) my brother is 9 years older than me. I hope that they move here before the baby is born so we can spoil it rotten.
2 responses
• United States
17 Jun 08
1st off congrats on bieng an auntie again.your brother is like some typical men when they should be happy they ruin it for everyone else, but ill tell you when she or he is born he will prolly change his tune. she has a chance to bring her oown baby into the world, not that thiers anythign wrong with adopting, but feeling the little fella or bella kicking and growing inside your belly is such a wonderful and beautiful feeling.. dont worry hell come around if not then pop him over the head mybe thatll help hehe lol...
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• United States
18 Jun 08
I know most men don't get all excited and happy with such news at this stage of their lives but my brother is being worse than most (must be an overachiever in the b***hole area). And somehow his first exwife got into this whole thing too (my future sil had my brother's phone and the first exwife called) and she is giving "advise" to my future sil like she has any good advice to share? It is just a mess. I just hope she can carry to term.
• United States
18 Jun 08
as long as she listens to the doctors and you and the family she wil be ok. she needs lots and lots of rest no heavy lifting and no arguing or frustration let it slide till she has the baby lol. god gave her this baby for a reason just have faith and it will all turn out ok....
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@spalladino (17925)
• United States
17 Jun 08
Congratulations to you and your future SIL. Maybe your brother is just in shock and will come around after he gets used to the idea of a new baby. Have fun spoiling her/him!
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• United States
17 Jun 08
We will if all goes well and she is able to carry to term.