Do people take u for granted?

India
June 18, 2008 12:16am CST
I don't know....but I think it happens with me alone...People always take me for granted..Whether it is my close relations or anyone..I don't know how to change the situation.....May be u also might have come across this same problem...Please share ur views with me....
4 responses
• United States
21 Jun 08
Yeah sometimes I feel that too anasthasia but as long as we did not hurt anybody then will be okay,but yes deep inside it hurt,but for me its better to hurt than to be a self centered.So if you feel that way then do something that you dont feel alone by urself.
@se7enthbird (8328)
• Philippines
18 Jun 08
yes my dad always takes us forgranted. for it is very hurting specially for my mom. but i can live with that. now that i have my own family and my own son i make sure i put him (my son) and my wife first before me. i dont want them to feel that i am taking them forgranted.
@weng_08 (282)
• Philippines
18 Jun 08
I don't feel that way, I guess it is a good thing, or maybe, I just don't dwell too much on it. Perhaps I understand when they don't get to spend much time with me for I myself get too busy from time to time that I sometimes fail to spend time with them...lol, maybe I am the one who have made them feel taken for granted, this is a reminder, huh. Have a great day Anasthasia, I bet they don't mean to make you feel that way.
@sk66rc (4264)
• United States
18 Jun 08
I've felt that way for a while... Not by anybody close but sometimes at work, I feel like I'm taken for granted... People automatically think that I'd take care of their problems... I'm one of the very few who's been there the longest so people come to me a lot... I've recently decided enough is enough... I normally have no problem helping people out but what ended up happening was I couldn't complete my job... So I tell a lot of people now they'll have to wait & if they can't, then they'll just have go look for somebody else to help them... It has gotten better now...