My sister emailed my new beau...

Canada
June 18, 2008 6:45am CST
I told my sister through email about my new beau and email her the link to his work website so that she could see a photo of him which had his email address on it. She decided to email him saying she's concerned and I deserve the best and to treat me right and all of that. She also told him to keep the email she sent between the two of them because I would kill her if I found out that she emailed him at all. He emailed her back saying we are in love preatty much and he will try his best to keep me happy. Then she emailed me saying she felt guilty and attached their emails to eachother. He then called me and told me what had happened and said he thought it was cute. I was so livid!!! I told him and her at first that I was okay with it. Mind you...my sister lives in Baton Rouge, LA. So I decided the next day (yesterday) to email her letting her know that I didn't appreciate her emailing him to "see for herself" (as she puts it) and telling him that I'm in love with him and to treat me right. She was absolutely being nosey and I am angry. Not only that...after I sent her that message, she sent me back a message cursing me out about missing her wedding and all of that. She has some underlined anger issues with me and called me a selfish, overbearing, Bit@h. She went back to childhood freuds in the email and all. I told her that she had problems, that she doesn't know me at all and to never speak to me again. I was just letting her know that she was wrong...she knows that she was wrong which is why she apologized. I'm just upset. What do you think???
2 responses
@nupats (3564)
• India
18 Jun 08
u r absolutly correct dear in telling her what u thought...she actually had no business poking her nose around where it did not belong...there was no reason for her to email ur boyfriend..now u dont let her harsh words upset u..if she is angry tht is her problem..have a nice day..keep smiling
• Canada
18 Jun 08
Thank you...by her getting so upset I was a little confused about whether I was overreacting...then I had to realize WHO I was talking about...my sister! I know you don't know her but that says alot.
@Ravenladyj (22992)
• United States
18 Jun 08
I think you are totally in the right and you handled yourself very well IMO....She however obviously has issues if she said sorry because she KNEW she was in the wrong BUT THEN flipped the switch and brought up things from yrs ago....
• Canada
18 Jun 08
Yes...she brought up things like me missing her wedding because I had better things to do. first of all, my sister got married in Baton Rouge 5 years ago and I spent a little over $2,000 to make her wedding...she made me be in the wedding and my daughter so I had two of everything to buy but I didn't mind becasue my sister was getting married only to divorce him a year later. Now my sister got married again last November in Baton Rouge and she wanted me to do it all again and I couldn't but I did send my daughter who was in her wedding again and bought everything she needed. Anyway...when I got married it costs my family nothing at all we paid for everything and I just think that's the way it should be. She's upset because she thinks I go after men with money and she keeps marrying men with no money. I don't go after money mind you...my ex-husband happen to own his own business and made money and my new beau is a Professor so they're not rich by far and I don't love for money I love for love she's just upset. I'm sorry I went on another tangent...I'm just so upset that she's angry because I choose to live my life the way I want and not follow any of my siblings becasue I'm the youngest.