did you first breakup destroy you completely?

China
June 19, 2008 10:56pm CST
oh,i didn't.in fact i didn't care my first bf.and thought i will find the better one.my friends all guessed i must be cried.but i really didn't.hehe.i'm a optimistic girl.
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@schummi (925)
• India
20 Jun 08
yeah i did it to me...i was completely shattered and am still havent forgotten the whole thing
• China
20 Jun 08
Hi,the same.almost destroyed me. after a long time it's much better now,still remember all the good or bad stuff. Even now,I'm not willing to fall in love with any others.
• Australia
26 Jun 08
It didnt destroy me i wasnt really that bothered about it. If i were to split up with my hubby now then i think that it would destroy me badly.
• China
25 Jun 08
you are a optimistic girl .many people lost confidence when they breakup .i think breakup is very normal.we should be optimistic.and believe that we can find a better one hehe
• Australia
25 Jun 08
Oh it definately didn't destroy me. Hit me like a strong slap though and was definately shocking. It made me realise that you must be grateful for what you have because you don't know how long it will last. Also made me watch out for wolves in sheeps clothing, always!
@SomeCowgirl (32271)
• United States
20 Jun 08
It's great that you are optimistic and have looked at the bigger picture. When my first bf broke up with me, it did not break my heart either. I was a bit disappointed that he did it through IM instead of through the phone, but it didn't bother me that we had broken up. Have a Great day.