What's make your decision of marriage?

China
June 20, 2008 3:29am CST
I am always curious about this, what's the feeling between lovers before they decied to get married?I can't understand it! What kinda feeling make feel or understand that you should get married?
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@sophialin (2678)
• China
20 Jun 08
though i have no boy friend now and say nothing of marriage.but i can imagine the feeling that you want to be together with someone for all your life. i guess that's a sweat feeling.
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• China
21 Jun 08
agree, i have boyfirend, it seems that i never thought of marriage, just mom always ask me when to get marriage...i can't reply her. i and bf, we feel fine together, maybe need sometime to get marriage. thank you for response
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@sophialin (2678)
• China
21 Jun 08
mee to,i have no bf and my parents seem to be more ergent than me about it though i am only 25 years old which i still think is very young.
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• United States
20 Jun 08
There is no "should", it is want. People in love want to celebrate their love with their family and friends. They want to be recognized by the law or by their church. What don't you understand? Do you think marriage is bad or something?
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• China
21 Jun 08
I agree with you, always parents and relatives say"should"to us, that kinda pressure make me feel uncomfortable. Since haven't been marriage, i don't know the feeling before marriage,and be curious about it.It is so sacred a thing, i admired and valued so much.Till now, i don't get the feeling of "want" thank you for response
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@YOULANLIU (312)
• China
20 Jun 08
In my mind,under the circumstances of all aspects of the conditions are ripe,the financial capacity of the two people is most important reason to impact the desire to get marriage.We should know that marriage is different from love,it is not romantic but actual,the couple should consider seriously their future life.The marriage could be have a bad end it both the two people don't have enough psychological preparation and steady income.
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• China
20 Jun 08
Does that mean they should buy house or enve pay for house by monthly installment? How do you think someone may say people should get marriage first, and then to set up their own business or their career, based on famaliy can one fully exert his/her ability to earn money or somthing else. thank you for your response.
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• Canada
21 Jun 08
My husband and I love eachother, and wanted the whole world to know it, so we decided to get married. Our churches would not agree initially, so we decided to get married at the court house. We are later going to have another cerimony in which I'll read from the Bible and he'll read from the Book of Mormon, without religious authority at all. They weren't there when we tought we needed them, so they will not be included, but we will still ind ways to include our own religious belies.
• China
23 Jun 08
why the church would not agree initially? May you happiness friend.