are you good as keeping secrets

India
June 24, 2008 3:21am CST
as many women cant keep secrets as if they have kept any thing in secrets there stomach starts apining so wht about u can u kept any secrect n if no than wht happends
5 responses
@mayrah (1037)
• Philippines
9 Oct 08
As far as I have with my own experience in keeping secret, I can proudly say I can keep secret provided the person would be very clear in asking me to keep it. But if she wouldn't say so that I must keep it, of course I wouldn't. I have this fear of being accused unfaithful or unreliable when it comes to keeping secrets
• India
10 Oct 08
thank u for your response
• India
25 Jun 08
oh yeah i can keep a lot of secrets!have soo many secrets!
• India
26 Jun 08
thank u for yur response
@skydancer (1986)
• United States
24 Jun 08
I consider myself good at keeping secrets. As long as it is something that doesn't carry much social accountability and isn't likely to get me in trouble, I am the type of person who would never tell anyone another's greatest, deepest personal thoughts, feelings, and fears if that's what they so desired. Sometimes, people even come to me for secrets because I do not have a large circle of friends (and the friends I do have who I see regularly, I don't have any deep conversations with), and have an introverted personality and I guess that makes them feel I am less likely to spill the beans so to speak. I have been known to diss people who have been mean to me or who have treated me wrongly - as most of us have probably done at some point - but I do not tell other friends'/acquaintances' secrets, and it is no problem because after they tell me and get it off of their chest, I don't go off thinking about it, and it never keeps me up all night or gives me "butterflies," so it is very easy for me to keep it all hush-hush.
• India
25 Jun 08
thank u for your response
@baileycows (3669)
• United States
24 Jun 08
It really depends. If I really care about you as a friend then I won't tell anyone not even my other friend. But if I don't really care if you like me or not then you better be careful telling me because I might not think about it when I tell my best friend.
• India
25 Jun 08
thank u for your response
@alokn99 (5717)
• India
24 Jun 08
I dont think it only women who experience such feeling about secrets. Men also go through all kinds of feeling about secrets. It all depends on the nature of the information and how much of a comprising/ powerful nature of the information that you carry. Many people just want the feeling of power or command by the fact that they hold this secret. Letting out the secret in a spurt without thinking of the consequences could hurt a lot of people
• India
25 Jun 08
thank u for yur respone