is it better to marry your freiend?

India
June 24, 2008 7:10am CST
many of us love our friends, i.e,get into love with our friends, is it right? will it be right to marry our friends?
7 responses
• India
26 Jun 08
yes it will be perfectly alright if both of you are very comfortable about your marriage and also it will be better than marrying someone else as friends understand each other better than anyone else.
@bajang (99)
• Philippines
26 Jun 08
As long that you love him,... Love begins through friends...
• India
24 Jun 08
i personally think yes...infact it will be great only when if he/she is your very good or best friend... like...i love my very good friend and she is my gf..i love her very much and does she....she really knows me very well what i will say when, i will do etc etc..even i knows... coz when you really know each other than no doubt that your relationship will always prosper..lol... coz its all about trust and understanding
@chej18 (915)
• United States
24 Jun 08
For me why not,some relationship start as a friend and they falling inlove to each other.Thats possible, it can happen.They said a couple who start friends can understand each other more.If you are attacted to your friend and you love each other there its not wrong to marry your friend.But there is some people who doesnt wanna marry thier friends, or become lover becouse they want to stay and treasure friendship.They are afraid that the marry thing and being a lover is not gonna work and they will lost each other also as a friend.That i can understand too!There is these friends who telling each other a fact that after they become older and they are still not married they will just marry each other.Have a nice day! Greetings from Che!
@melo_828 (427)
• Philippines
24 Jun 08
yeah, it's better to love a friend when you really love her and not to hurt her only in the end. because a friend and you already knows well each other. there is also a bigger possibility that you will have a great relationship when you started it with friendship.
• United States
25 Jun 08
I think it is very important to be friends with your lover. However if you are friends with someone for too long you might ruin the friendship if the love doesn't work out. You may be the best of friends and love to hang out or have soo much in common. But everything changes when you live together. The smallest, minute detail of something they do will drive you over the edge. For example, if you are a neat freak they leave their clothes on the floor or they never wash their dishes. It's just something to think about. If you think it will work out, I say go for it.
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
24 Jun 08
if you marry someone that you are attracted to a lot but have nothing in common, nothing to talk about, none of the same things you like to do together, what a lonely existance that would be.