what can i do to go back again my love?

Philippines
June 25, 2008 11:14pm CST
he left me just recently beacause of to much jealous..i really dont know what to do he told me that his love for me is losing bit by bit.. because i always get jealous and then i told him okey just leave me alone and now..i am so sad i want him to go back again to me
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5 responses
26 Jun 08
Hi Charlesann! I'm a very jealous person myself! I've been in my current relationship for over 3 years, and I love my man more than the world. We did, and occasionally still do, have fights about my jealousy and insecurities. Has your man given you any reason to feel jealous? i.e. Cheating? What helps out with us is communication. Talking out every situation that I get jealous about. I am lucky to have a very patient and understanding man. Don't get me wrong, he gets upset alot of times when I get jealous, but we talk openly about it makes us both feel... and BOOM, I understand where he's coming from, and he understands me. We used to just brush it off and go to sleep angry, and wake up ok. That didn't fix anything, ofcourse! I know how bad it hurts to want someone back, and to lose them over something you may have done. But, just be very patient and give him some space. I'm sure he loves you just as much, and will want you back too. If he doesnt, it's his loss. Seriously, jealous people need a patient person that will sit there and listen and talk to them. Keep your head up. "If you love someone, you have to let them go, and if they come back, that's how you know it is meant to be."
@chej18 (916)
• United States
26 Jun 08
Hi charlesann, That very complicated situation you got there.But i think if thats me i dont like him back.I know its kind of sassy but it is for your own good.If you are jelous then he didnt do anything about it and just being mad becouse your jelous everytime.I think you should figure it out.if someone care and love sombody if that somebody dont feel good,or jelous,sad,upset thean he is the one who is doing thing try to resolve the problem and trying to convince her not to be jelous or nothing to be jelous about.If he is just getting mad and leave you like that then he doesnt deserve you.He have to know that you only jelous becouse you love him so much and afraid to lose him.But he should be happy that someone love him like that.You can find much better i know its easy for me to say becouse i am not in situation.Time can heal all the pain and just move on and find somebody else.Mybe in that way he will realized what he lost is so genuine love from you.Goodluck and i hope you feel better soon.Takecare your self. Greetings from Che!
@rsa101 (13343)
• Philippines
26 Jun 08
It seems to me that it was you that caused the breakup. Well for one you have two option. First is to win him back to you. But I doubt if you could if he said to you that his love for you is slowly dying. It is hard for a man to really returned back to what used to be. you can try the first option but be ready for any consequences. Second one is to move on and accept that you made the mistake and you are paying dearly for it. Just hope and pray that someday the pain will heal and you'll be open to a new relationship you deserve. Learn the lesson from this experience, jealousy can never help you in expressing your love for others. In fact, they sometimes are destructive to a relationship. Lean the lesson well because if you do not then you are bound to repeat it again if given the chance.
@rpegan (599)
• United States
26 Jun 08
If someone doesn't want to be with you, you've just got to get over it. Your own jealous tendencies drove him away, and he is not obligated to return to you. Just move on and try not to make the same mistake again.
@irishidid (8103)
• United States
26 Jun 08
I can't say you can get him back, but you need to work on your jealousy issues and get to the bottom of why you feel jealous.