Is your spouse your First Love?

@salonga (27775)
Philippines
June 27, 2008 10:07pm CST
According to an article, majority of people does not end up with their the first love of their life. Is this true to your case? My husband is not my first love so to me this is applicable. How about you?
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15 responses
@pehpot (4762)
• Philippines
29 Aug 08
I don't know actually, I don't even know what is the meaning of love, but if my meaning is acceptable to you.. that love is a decision , that deciding to be with the one you love for the rest of your life, making it work and doing everything for the relationship to survive, then I say my husband is my first love.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
29 Aug 08
It's alright even if you don't know the meaning of love if you mean you don't know how to express in words. What matters most is that you can feel it and you know how to express it in actions. Of course when you decide you will be with your chosen hubby, it's because you felt the love within so that is love. And deciding to marry her and make the relationship survive is a confirmation that you really are seriously in love. If you felt that emotion for the first time only for your hubby then he is your first love. I wish the best on your marriage!
@pehpot (4762)
• Philippines
29 Aug 08
Thanks! and to you too!
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
28 Jun 08
i don't have a spouse anymore but he was not my first love. i think it's great in a way when u marry your first love but doubt that happens much anymore. i don't think uever forget your first love , do you?
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
30 Jun 08
i said you never forget your love. i didn't mean u couldn't find someone better & fall in love w/them.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
30 Jun 08
Well, first love could be gotten over for as long as you've met your greatest love.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
28 Jun 08
I can understand where this is true. My fiance, however, is my first love. I have had crushes on others, and have dated a few, but this man is the one that I fell in love with, gradually but powerfully. Have a Great day.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
28 Jun 08
Your first love turned out to be your last love. Good for you! Congrats! God bless your marriage!
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
28 Jun 08
I appreciate your well wishes for me and my fiance, and I hope that you are happy. Have a Great day.
@dhangski (3194)
• Philippines
28 Jun 08
I married my first and definitely my last love. We met way back in high school but that was an on and off relationship for 2 years. Then we lost communication. Then after 2 years again, our paths crossed. We were on again and after 4 years we decided to get married. We are married for 10 years now going 11 on September.
@dhangski (3194)
• Philippines
8 Jul 08
Thank you so much for the pencil mark my dear friend. HUGZ!
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
28 Jun 08
Another beautiful love story you have! I like it, it sounds like mine with slight difference. My husband was also a high school classmate but he was not my first love but definitely now my greatest and last love.
• Philippines
8 Jul 08
My husband is my first love I happened to believe and advocated for True love waits and I live with it. I meet him when I am already 26 and people like my classmates thinks me weird having no boyfriend before that, but its okey, I have outlived that, lol. Anyway, I am a Christian and live by that, only by the grace of God and I am happy to the outcome of my prayers that God did gave me a good man, I couldn't ask for more. Thanks for posting this, your thread makes me smile :)
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
8 Jul 08
Answered prayer! Wonderful! God is so good and He does answers prayers. I have nothing but best wishes on your marriage. God bless you both!
@sumiirajj (1983)
• India
29 Aug 08
Hi salonga,The first person I loved is my husband,he became my life partner after our parents decided and agreed .Thanks for sharing.Happy mylotting.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
29 Aug 08
Wonderful! It's nice to end up with your first love! I supposed you have a beautiful relationship. There are relationship where parents are not agreeable and still they make good, how much more if parents have agreed. I wish the best on your marriage.
@spoiled311 (5500)
• Philippines
28 Jun 08
hi salonga! well i really think that my husband is my first real love. hmmm...i did have crushes, but really, i didn't love them like i do my husband. :) and i am happy that i married him. :) God bless you! take care! :) have a happy weekend!
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
28 Jun 08
Lucky you are! God bless your marriage!
• India
28 Jun 08
My wife is my first love.. I love my wife very much and I am thankful to god for this..
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
30 Jun 08
I admire you! You're wife is blessed!
• United States
28 Jun 08
My husband is my first love, my first boyfriend, unfortunately not my first kiss, but everything else.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
26 Aug 08
So you husband was also your first love and every other firsts in your. What a lucky guy! Never mind if not first kiss becasue we all get kissed first by our mother or father I think. Ha!ha!ha! I'm just kidding.
@AshleyHasan (1024)
• India
28 Jun 08
Yes for me my husband is my first love, my husband also states the same!
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
30 Jun 08
Oh how sweet!
@kiran1978 (4134)
• Australia
28 Jun 08
My partner (practically married,lol), is not my first love, he is my third love, but lucky number three. I don't think I would have wanted to end up marrying my first love as I think you would always wonder what if??
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
30 Jun 08
Lucky indeed!
@sona22 (1430)
• India
3 Jul 08
Yes my husband is my first love. And I am also his first love. We have Love at first sight.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
4 Jul 08
Oh may! You have lots of firsts that follow through I supposed! That's so sweet! Thanks for sharing!
• United States
28 Jun 08
Yes she is.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
30 Jun 08
Lucky you!
@kevron (27)
• Jamaica
28 Jun 08
before i say anything. Firstly we have to know what is true love then we can say something.In many cases it is unlikely that is really have that the two persons end up with each other but guess what if it is the will of God that the two persons should be to gather it will happen.As for me i can happen if you know what i me.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
30 Jun 08
Thanks you for your good views!
• United States
28 Jun 08
Yes he is :) I met him when we were both 16 years old and have been together since then. Couldnt imagine my world without him in it.