curious to know

@msedge (4012)
United States
June 28, 2008 3:43am CST
I don't have any sister.I am the only daughter.I have a bestfriend that i treated like my sister but i guess its really different when you have the same blood running in your body.I am just curious to know how does it feel to have a sister?
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@mary463 (146)
• India
28 Jun 08
I also don't a sister.But I have brother.You have a friend as a sister,I think that is better than you have a sister from your parents.My brother helps me in all my situations .But I am not sure will he there for me every time ie, after his marriage.I have friends that keeping good relation ship even after our marriage.In our history we are all came from one parents in that case anybody can be sister or brother only our way of thinking has to be changed to according to each person
@KUSHANK55 (2437)
• India
28 Jun 08
hi msedge. the world is a funny place and has funnier people around.msedge when it comes to the blood all human beings are alike, created in the same way. we view them differently.believe me the real sister born of the same set of parents may become your biggest enemy . it is the psyche behind not having a real sister which is determining your thought process.and if we devote ourselves to any one then there is no difference. it is just how we take it.
@msedge (4012)
• United States
29 Jun 08
I can relate your views with my life but with my brother.We fought several times because he kept cheating and stealing money from me and then theres one thing he had done and made me so mad which its hard for me to forgive him.I would say he is my biggest enemy now.
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@olivemai (4738)
• United States
30 Jun 08
I have five sisters! It is usually a blessing to have sisters! But not always, and the relationships can change after so many years or marriage!
@msedge (4012)
• United States
1 Jul 08
I think its good to have them as long as you get along with each other.I know sometimes we can't avoid the misunderstandings but there are some that really in good relationship i even feel envious sometimes and wish i have one too.
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@olivemai (4738)
• United States
1 Jul 08
Yes, this is true! Brothers are good to have too! What we do here is to create our own "sister" relationships with friends who live closer and are as close as sisters anyway!
@msedge (4012)
• United States
4 Jul 08
I have a friend who i treated as sister.We are best friends and we both don't have any sister.We've been close since childhood.But i found out she had changed.She never talk to me anymore.I dont know why and my relatives are whats left for me now which i thought she would also since i treated her as part of my family.
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@djoyce71 (2512)
• Philippines
1 Oct 08
I'm the second in the family and I have two sisters, the one is the eldest and the other one is the fourth child in the family. It's good to have sisters specially if you're close. You can share secrets and problems. In our case, our eldest helped us during the times when we were still studying because she had a job, she supported us financially. Now, that she resigned from her job and have her own family, we make it a point to visit her and have a get together.
@msedge (4012)
• United States
18 Dec 08
Thats nice!She is really a responsible sister.Your family is lucky to have her.
@hiddenwing (3721)
• China
30 Sep 08
If u get on so well with someone, someone will be your sister. I have a sister, who always think she has more fun together with her firends. She is four years younger than me. Thus there are kind of gerenation gap between us. Some people are more closer with their sisters since they spend so much time together. It is all about time. A really good friend may be better than a sister or something.
@msedge (4012)
• United States
18 Dec 08
Yeah thats what i noticed from others too.They prepare to be close to others rather than their sisters.
@mariamac (145)
• India
3 Jul 08
I too dont have any sisters but yes i have 2 brothers who are younger to me. And we share good bonding between the 3 of us. Since i've lost my mother some years ago, i became kind of mother to my brothers since i was the eldest and touch wood till today though we all are married and settled in our own lives we still share the same bond of luv and respect to each other. and for me they are my best friends, coz they are the ones who have grown with me, been through the same ups and downs on life, so they i feel are the best people who u can trust and be with. Again its up to each one as to how yr relationship has been built up over the years, be it with your siblings or an outside person as a friend, i feel its trust and how confident you feel about that person matters for me.