Do i need to seek of wait for my LOve?

Philippines
June 29, 2008 5:06am CST
Do you think i can meet someday a better person to love me for the rest of my life? as of now i am scared to commit relationship i better choose friendship.
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5 responses
@rsa101 (13336)
• Philippines
30 Jun 08
Get away with those fear as this are the ones that stop you from getting into a loving relationship. Open yourslef and trust in you instincts. If it fails then learn from it then move one. That is a much better way to live you life than hiding in fear and baeing too cautious in life makes it more difficult and there are many questions about life unanswered. Be wise though in choosing, it doesn't mean that when you open up you will offer yourself to anyone you meet it just means open to possibilities and if it does not go to your liking and feelings then move on to another opportunity. Choosing friendship may also work on you but do not limit yourself into it. If there is a possibility for it to become loving then go on there's no harm in trying. Its better to learn from your losses than never try at al because of fear.
• Philippines
30 Jun 08
yeah thank you.. i try my self.
@ESKARENA1 (18299)
29 Jun 08
i think you need to wait until you meet someone because you find the person who is right for you, you will not need to ask such questions
• Philippines
30 Jun 08
i take your advice since i am still a college student then i have to prioritize my career and family as of now and true love comes later.
@vrahulan (114)
• India
29 Jun 08
As far as I'm concerned its better to find someone who loves you. This will lead to a better future as you are being loved by your partner (i.e) you are being cared for by someone and hence you can love him. But there are no guarantees if the one you love will always love you. I may not be old enough (I'm 21) to say these but this is my view.
• Philippines
30 Jun 08
i wont oppose from your opinion ,, you have your own point of view and i respect that,,, i believe too that finding either seeking for the best is good and you are correct that there is no guarantees if they can love us until eternity.
@cyberfluf (5005)
• Netherlands
29 Jun 08
There's no good in going after a relationship, if a relationship is meant for you it will come onto your pad. If you are scared of commitment at the time being I wouldn't rush into anything. Try and relax and get back on your own two feet before you commit to someone again. And who knows, a friendship can grow to become something more too. Just be patient and you'll find love again :)
• Philippines
29 Jun 08
i try do make my self patient maybe i am just confuse regarding the things that i am thinking.
@maryannemax (12172)
• Sweden
29 Jun 08
you can say that you are scared to be in another relationship because you do not want to let go of your past. we all get hurt, cry and there are even those who kill themselves because of love. there are just things in this world we can never control. if your relationship now is not working right, then it just means that you are not meant for each other. after sometime, you will find someone who will open your heart to trust and love again. anne
• Philippines
29 Jun 08
past is almost forgotten and i already move a year ago as of now i really priorities my career and my family. i am scared if i choose the wrong one who will be with me for the rest of my life.