Do i need to seek of wait for my LOve?

Get away with those fear as this are the ones that stop you from getting into a loving relationship. Open yourslef and trust in you instincts. If it fails then learn from it then move one. That is a much better way to live you life than hiding in fear and baeing too cautious in life makes it more difficult and there are many questions about life unanswered. Be wise though in choosing, it doesn't mean that when you open up you will offer yourself to anyone you meet it just means open to possibilities and if it does not go to your liking and feelings then move on to another opportunity. Choosing friendship may also work on you but do not limit yourself into it. If there is a possibility for it to become loving then go on there's no harm in trying. Its better to learn from your losses than never try at al because of fear.

i think you need to wait until you meet someone because you find the person who is right for you, you will not need to ask such questions

you can say that you are scared to be in another relationship because you do not want to let go of your past. we all get hurt, cry and there are even those who kill themselves because of love. there are just things in this world we can never control. if your relationship now is not working right, then it just means that you are not meant for each other. after sometime, you will find someone who will open your heart to trust and love again. anne

There's no good in going after a relationship, if a relationship is meant for you it will come onto your pad. If you are scared of commitment at the time being I wouldn't rush into anything. Try and relax and get back on your own two feet before you commit to someone again. And who knows, a friendship can grow to become something more too. Just be patient and you'll find love again :)

As far as I'm concerned its better to find someone who loves you. This will lead to a better future as you are being loved by your partner (i.e) you are being cared for by someone and hence you can love him. But there are no guarantees if the one you love will always love you. I may not be old enough (I'm 21) to say these but this is my view.