Could i really lose my marriage by emailing another man?
By patzel88
@patzel88 (3310)
Philippines
7 responses
@moonlitmagikchild (22181)
• United States
3 Jul 08
yeah you could if you arent open and honest with your partner and if your partner is jealous.. im a huge flirt but my hubby knows that and he knows how i am with other guys but he also knows i would never cheat on him and he isnt a jealous person and he trust me so me doing emailing guys wouldnt but it depends on how you are and how open you are with your partner.. good luck!! 
@patzel88 (3310)
• Philippines
3 Jul 08
yes he is always jealous most of the time. i dont blame on him for being jealous because of some experiences that he had but its hard for me to tell him because he wont understand.the best way i can do is to stop emailing the guy to create the big problem to my family.
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@lorelie78n (145)
• Philippines
2 Jul 08
Whether or not you think it is an innocent affair, it is still cheating. If you still love your husband, better stop it now. The more you get stuck in the hole, the deeper you will be sucked in. In the end, you might be too deep to even get out from it.
Think about it, is that guy worth losing everything you have in your life right now? Do you think the relationship you are having with that guy is going somewhere? How confident are you that he is serious?
Its nice to hear that even if your married, somebody still thinks your hot or your still a good catch. But remember you have entered a contract, life contract. Either you face that contract or get out of it before you hurt somebody aside your self.
@lorelie78n (145)
• Philippines
3 Jul 08
No worries Patzel! I know how hard it is to see a family separate. My dad left us for another woman when I was 4 and only came back when I was 12. It is quite hard for us (the kids) to adjust to the situation. My mom also did struggle.
I just don't want to see a good family go to waste just because of extra marital activities.
Wishing you the best.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
2 Jul 08
There are many instances where internet friendship blossomed into intimate relationship. If you love your husband, it is wise to discontinue this online dating as it will dent your marriage.
@honeydew82174 (1720)
• United States
2 Jul 08
I think your husband would be deeply hurt by this and you need to stop talking to this man before it turns into something you do not want. I would be very upset if my husband was talking to a woman online friends or not. It can lead to other things. If it did lead to other things it does not just affect you and the hubby but the kids to. Look at the whole picture. Not just how good you feel talking to him.
@joliefille (3690)
• Philippines
3 Jul 08
It may grow serious before you know it and this man could actually be expecting more from you later on. So it's better to put a stop to it. Think about how you would feel if your husband was also emailing another woman.
