How wife can be more lovable towards her hubby...

India
July 3, 2008 9:03am CST
I am newly married, and my hubby loves me lot but I want to be more loveble. How could?
2 responses
@naseeha (1385)
• India
4 Jul 08
Be loving kind and understanding. Enjoy this period of life as it is most sweet romantic time in your life. The way to a mans heart is through his stomach. So try your hand at cooking his favorite dishes. Give small surprises and gifts to your husband which will increase the love between you. Enjoy your married life.
@nanikj (26)
• United States
4 Jul 08
All men want is the respect of their wives. Even if he knows his wife loves him, it builds his feeling of completeness and gives him the security of his manhood. By respect, I mean, to let him know that he is the man of the house. Never belittle him in front of others. Tell him how strong he is in your eyes and that you want his opinion in different things. This is not to say, he is to walk on you or make you less of a woman, but usually, if you build him up, he will give you the love and devotion you want. It may take a while, because he might think you are getting ready to ask him for something. If he says, "Okay, what you want?" Just say, "Nothing sweetheart, I wanted you to know that I trust you, love you and that you are indeed the man of the house." He will be so surprised, that he will think twice before every decision that he makes, just so he won't let you down. You have to be consistent, or he will know it is fake. This takes years of practice, believe me. I learned the hard way. Nanikj
• United States
9 Jul 08
Its best to do this right at the start of your marriage, and don't slow down after a year or two. Just keep treating him with respect, but if you do have a concern, talk to him about it when he's relaxed. I love cooking for him when I'm not working. The crockpot is my best friend, because I can have hot meals waiting for him when he comes home. I get up with him and make his coffee, and lunch, and spend time with him. I rub his back when it hurts, and give him Pepto when his tummy hurts. The best thing about about doing all this? He does it for me as well! He will cook for me, give me back rubs, and bring me coffee in bed because I do it for him. We both feel safe and loved.
@academic2 (7009)
• Uganda
3 Jul 08
Conquer him completely emotionally and he will feel absolutely incomplete without you-he will never find joy in another woman's arms-give him everything you have-and dont even contemplate any resistance when he wants the sweetst part of you-trust him and build your trust for each other mutually-you are not perfect and he is just a man, full of even greater weaknesses than you-admit that you are prone to making mistakes and let the magic word sorry be handy-teach him to do all these things I have listed unto you too-you wont go wrong in your marriage
• India
3 Jul 08
Thanks for your suggestions, I will keep all these in my mind. How come you know all these, are you married?