It hurts so much when you fall in love: agree or disagree

@dorothy09 (1520)
Philippines
July 4, 2008 12:49am CST
It is so nice feeling when you fall in love and it hurts so much also..because when you are so in love you get easily jealous..and feeling of jelousy is so painful.. It feel so great when your in love and it hurts so much also do you agree with me
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@juhi06 (1850)
• India
4 Jul 08
hi dorothy is it the first time for you ? or some repeated experience?
@juhi06 (1850)
• India
4 Jul 08
your cloudy heart is fantastic . at cloud nine?
@raynejasper (2326)
• Philippines
8 Jul 08
..hi dorothy.. I do agree and disagree... :) I mean, I disagree that falling in love hurts because I believe that when you love someone, you are happy when you see him/her happy. You give your best and you give your all. After all, giving is more important than receiving be cause when we give our love, we think of how we could make our love one happy. Jealousy is part of a relationship because it makes the relationship grow stronger and firm if jealousy is taken positively. How? When you are jealous, try to be open to your boyfriewnd/girlfriend. Be frank. Tell him you are jealous and explain your reasons. He will also have his reasons and when both of you open your heart for understnading, definitely, your love will grow more and more. On the other hand, I agree when your love isn't comprehended at all. I mean, when you fall in love to somebody who isn't capable of loving you back. There are those who takes love for granted. Actually, its not love but lust. That's why when we love, we have to reserve something for ourself. I mean, don't give 100% of your love to the guy/girl so that when you split up, you can easily move on. After all, you have to prove that he/she is not your loss, instead, he/she was the loss more.
@msedge (4012)
• United States
7 Jul 08
Yes being in love is the shawdow of pain and happiness.But mostly we never mind the pain as long as we are happy loving someone.Even you know its hurting you, still you keep loving the person.But at least you are showing your love and you are just giving justice to what you feel and thats make you happy.
5 Jul 08
agree.
@piecesB (46)
• China
4 Jul 08
Yes I think so!But in my opinon,The best thing you do is to have confidence after falling in love! you must belive that you have more chance to get good firends who are better than your old girl firends!
• India
4 Jul 08
Yeah, i agree with you. Love hurts, when in love there is so much pain, and that feeling really hurts, yewah jealousy could be an issue, and there are lots of other issues concerning the matter of love.
@LarienOB (103)
• China
4 Jul 08
lover fell in to love and fell in to jealousy .take it easy ,it will be fine,if he is you ture love ,you will put it down.It's women's nature to be jealous.
• United States
4 Jul 08
Yes and no, it does because it is an emotional attachment that is going to be formed with this person, but it is also that greatest euphoria because you are falling in love with someone that you truly want to be with.
@mansaa (42)
4 Jul 08
yes it does hurt. It does hurt in simple and simple things. But the feeling of hurt in our heart is just an emotion for our loved one. When you get hurt and cry, later you will realise that it was worthless to cry and get hurted myself. It was just my emotion's outbrust.
• United States
4 Jul 08
Falling in love shouldn't hurt, I think its more like the feeling of a warm towel out of the dryer. It hurts when your heart gets broken because your feelings were hurt or you feel like you've given a part of yourself and you can't get it back, but it shouldn't hurt to fall in love.