Wat wud u do if ur fiance is hiding something important from u??

India
July 4, 2008 4:02am CST
Please be frank, Wat wud u do if ur fiance is hiding something important from u???
5 responses
@lyzabelle (1668)
• Philippines
5 Jul 08
I will respect his silence...there are somethings that better be keep a secret, but still i will be feeling bad about it. Anyways...i will try to ask him about it...the sooner he tells me the better.
@gloreymay (882)
• Philippines
5 Jul 08
Depends on something he is hiding for... If that something could bring no good to the relationship then its another story which should be talked about. And if that something has something to do with the relationship to be broken then I will feel bad about it for not telling it to me.
@Ravenladyj (22937)
• United States
4 Jul 08
Once I found out I'd be LIVID....and it would seriously put a damper on our relationship..I have very very low tolerance for deceit..in fact I can't stand it and anyone who knows me KNOWS I feel that way so to find out after the fact that he was hiding something major from me would seriously make me think twcie about the relationship
@academic2 (7010)
• Uganda
4 Jul 08
I would assume I dont Know anything and infact I will not try to dig deep into what I dont-I am one person who feels ignorance is peace-in this life trying to know every thing can be a source of great pain to you prsnally-just let the things you dont know pass on
@acevivx (1566)
• Philippines
4 Jul 08
If he is hiding it from you how in the first place did you know that he was hiding something from you? Whatever, if my fiance is hiding something important from me, I don't just blow off my top because it is possible it is something which might not at all concern me or he might just want to spare me any worries or pain. I would of course confront him about it and ask him to explain why he kept it from me. If it is the first time he did it, i would of course tell him how bad i felt and that i wouuld rather share problems with him so he should not hide it from me especially if it is important. I will forgive him. But if he always does it, I will have to rethink the relationship because this might be a manifestation of a lack of trust and confidence in me and that is not a good sign of a stable long lasting relationship and so i will have to decide if it is sufficient reason to break up with him