teenager love...?

United States
July 4, 2008 8:22am CST
Don't you think it is really stupid to have a boy friend/girl friend when you are a teenager. I mean really in 2 years you'll look back and be like what the hell was I thinking. I think you should start dating in college or after college because the only thing that comes with teenager love is a drama. Do you agree?
5 responses
@SusanLee (1920)
• United States
4 Jul 08
Well, actually I don't think it's stupid at all. I think it's perfectly normal. What I do think is stupid is when all these young teens start sleep around with each other. I really think that is something that should wait until marriage. Or at least until they're grown adults. I don't know how in the world you can keep two young people from being attracted to each other and wanting to be a couple, even if it is for a short time. lol, it would by like trying to stop the sun from shining. Young love is bittersweet and so precious. I remember, I was young once and very much in love with a boy.
• United States
4 Jul 08
Yeah that's just really stupid, But I'm talking bout more of like middle school love. Yeah high school is ok I just think it gets in the way of your school work.
@SusanLee (1920)
• United States
4 Jul 08
Oh I got you, yes, 11, 12 and 13-year-olds really need to keep their eyes on the books and off each other. But I've noticed they seem to start younger and younger these days. I'm not for that either.
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• United States
6 Jul 08
I agree and disagree. I have dated as a teenager. A long relationship in fact. 3 years. It was both great and horrible. I do look back now and wonder what the hell I was thinking sometimes. But I also don't regret it. It prepared me for my future relationship. It made me a lot more mature and understanding of how a real relationship should be. I dont thnk its stupid to have a boyfriend/girlfriend while young because you can really learn from it. Sometimes people are lucky and they last, such as high school sweethearts.
• United States
6 Jul 08
Ok, I see what you mean now.
• Philippines
6 Jul 08
never had a boyfriend in highschool, but eventually i did after, it was dumb hehe, i had no experience in a relationship but i was happy that it ended, i really regret that i even had a boyfriend, but it was a learning experience, i still regret it but come on that's life i know better now.
• United States
6 Jul 08
One person on my side. hehe
• United States
4 Jul 08
i actuslly met my husband when i was 16. and we have been together since. so i dont think it is wrong to date when you are a teenager.but i dont agree with the way alot of these kids carry themselves around each other.
• United States
6 Jul 08
that's a nice story.
• United States
4 Jul 08
i dont think its stupid, those relationships serve as lessons and some lucky few actually end up being life partners.