why do you have to hate on my shoes!?!?!

Rose shoes.  - awesome rose shoe
United States
July 6, 2008 5:14pm CST
Why do men hate that ladys have to have so many pairs of shoes???? Why do they try to throw them away everything chance they get???? I love all my shoes i can't get rid of none of them... I still have shoes for the 90s. I don't have the heart to throw them away.... Why can't men be like us with shoes???? I love shoes... I would cry if he made me throw any of my shoes away??? Please help me.
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@katsmeow1213 (29041)
• United States
6 Jul 08
Do you actually wear every pair of shoes you own? I too love shoes with a passion and wish I could own more. Unfortunatly with 5 kids to feed and clothe, shoes for myself are on the bottom of my list :( I don't actually save all of my shoes. Every so often I'll go through them and the ones I don't see myself wearing anymore I give to the Salvation Army.
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• United States
7 Jul 08
I don't have kids.. there this one pair of shoes my husband wants to throw away but i can see myself wearing them in the future..
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• United States
7 Jul 08
Well why does he want to throw them away?
• United States
7 Jul 08
Cause he says they look like they are from the 80s... but thay are from the this time
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• United States
8 Jul 08
Here's another way that I'm lucky. My hubby loves that I have different shoes. He also likes my strappy, sexy shoes. He even tells me what shoes look best with what outfit. He wants me to keep them on while we do the nasty but it's uncomfortable.
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• United States
9 Jul 08
Dougy does that to it just this one pair of shoes that he wants me to get rid of and i don't wanna get rid of them cause i do wear them (sometimes) he just has never seen me wear them.. He thinks that they are from he 80s and they aren't...I have thrown away shoes for him and he said i can't get no more shoes until i get rid of the ones he wants me to get rid of.
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• United States
10 Jul 08
Then play let's make a deal! He set himself up for this one. Throw out them shoes and then tell him you gotta go shoe shopping. Buy two pair instead of one. When he ask why two, you tell him that the other shoes matched two oufits and you couldn't find just one other pair that would do the same. He can't say that he didn't agree to the deal. You might loose a pair you like, but you'll gain two new pair.
@Tianna2 (1274)
• United States
7 Jul 08
Hi, Men just dont understand why we need so many shoes. They can see how different colors and styles go with different outfits. On that same note, I cant understand why they need so many different types of saw and other power tools. Why do they need a whole tool box full of tools that they will only use once or twice and then complain about have to use them then. My shoes arent going anywhere!! Hugs, Tianna
• United States
7 Jul 08
Thank you... thats what i am talking about.. My husband complains that he doesn't have enough tools.. I have like 15 pairs of shoes and I throw some away for him like two months ago cause i didn't wear them anymore... there is this one pair of shoes that he hates and wants me to get rid of cause her says they look like they are from the 80s... I love them i can't just get rid of them i just don't have anything to wear them with...
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• United States
7 Jul 08
I can understand why guys have to have so many tools my husband is a diesel mechanic and uses tools all time. They have special tool to complete special jobs.... (my husband is saying this)
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@cyberfluf (5004)
• Netherlands
14 Jul 08
Cyber gothic platform boots - These are the greatest boots for clubbing! Even though they are pretty high they are still very comfortable and fit nicely even if you have a bit of a thicker calf.
I have the non-patent ones myself as I found them on the internet, only worn a couple of times, and at a very good price. Otherwise I would've bought the patent ones but this saved me so much money I am not going to make a fuzz about the material :)
Ah yes... I'm a shoelover too:) Luckily my boyfriend couldn't care less about how many pairs I have, sometimes I do want to get rid of them and he's the one that tells me not too because he knows I love them and he's affraid that I might regret selling them or throwing them away. He's a real sweetheart. I've heard other stories and your topic of this discussion and the replies proof that there are also guys that have way different opinions on shoes. I consider myself lucky:) Added a pic of one of my favourite pairs of boots!
• United States
14 Jul 08
Those are awesome i wish that i had a good guy that let me keep my shoes... THank you for your response..
@RastamanG (385)
9 Jul 08
I like my shoes too i feel where your coming from and im a guy i have like 10 pairs of shoes and loads more that i don't even wear i still want more shoes though.
• United States
13 Jul 08
Thank you for your input
@cream97 (29166)
• United States
12 Dec 09
Hi, pixiedustforyou2008! I guess the man is not used to seeing a woman with many shoes. It is weird to him. If I was you, I would just continue to wear what I have always been wearing. If you like having many pairs of shoes, then that is nothing wrong with that at all. It is your style, do what makes you feel comfortable. After all they are your shoes. And no one has to like them but you.
• Philippines
12 Dec 09
maybe these men are bothered of how much space a woman's shoe collection is taking.I can totally relate.if a man is bothered by my shoe collection,then I won't stay in a relationship with him,much more I will not marry him.same as having pets,my shoes are important to me.I won't accept a guy who is bothered by my shoes.there is more to worry about in life than worrying about a woman's shoe collection.