Will you get together with your ex again?

Malaysia
July 7, 2008 10:01pm CST
I cant let go of my ex you see, after we broke up, we become great friends like we used to. Although it is a short term relationship, it's some of the happiest times in my life and so far it's the only relationship i have. I'm definately not good at it. I am thinking of getting back together with her. How about you? Give some comment. Thanks eveyone.
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8 responses
@cheongyc (5075)
• Malaysia
9 Jul 08
I am not good in relationship actually. My ex have been with me for 5 years, but still she leave me. But what I can share about is, first love is usually unforgetable and it's not easy to let go. I am becoming much better only after 1 year. Until I am still sad thinking about my ex. We will be quite obsessed with the 1st lover. After you got more exposure and have a wider perspective, then you will know it's not the most important thing in life. There are way too many things that need our attention in this world other than relationship. But we as human are prone to our sensation and easily fall to our sadness when the sad past reminds us about itself. So, since you guys are still talking, it's good to maintain the friendship. It's not bad too, when you find it out later on, to be as intimate friends. You can try get together with her again if there is any chance, no rush. But bear in mind, you will have the risk of facing the same sadness the second time. I know how it feels and I really don't want the third time. Good luck and all the best!
• Malaysia
30 Aug 08
wow... really hard time for u last time huh.... ya... it takes really long time to forget.. thx for sharing and responding..
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@cheongyc (5075)
• Malaysia
1 Sep 08
You are most welcome. I just hope my experience could help you. Ya, that's a great deal of ordeal for me in the past relationship. So, now I wish the better is coming and the life ahead will be great for me, and you too! Good luck in your quest of looking the best soul mate!
@lkbooi (16101)
• Malaysia
9 Jul 08
Hi Athrun, I am sad to learn that your first romance turned out to be waterloo. It’s relieved to know that you too still could get along together with your ex gf, though the relationship had ended. You are still very young my dear, and have lots of opportunity ahead. I believe finally you could manage to find your cup of tea. posting and take care.
• Malaysia
30 Aug 08
Ya, i think i better start forgetting my ex and find someone more suitable fo me:.. thx for responding.
@williamjisir (22905)
• China
8 Jul 08
Hello dear Athrun. If there is such a possibility for you to get together, I think that you need to have a try to see how it works. I wish you good luck, Athrun.
• Malaysia
8 Jul 08
Hi wiliamjisir. Thanks for responding. Thanks for getting my back. I think i will try my best to get my 2nd chance.
@metschica25 (5407)
• United States
8 Jul 08
Sometimes , we all need a second chance to get it right ! I always said I wanted to get back with my ex and so much time passed . I knew that one day he would wanna get back together with me, but it was too late . I moved on with someone new , and have never been happier . Our 2nd chance never came, because of time . So, if you both are free grab it !
• Malaysia
8 Jul 08
Ya, i hope i gonna get one too. I wil try my best to get my second chance. Congrats to you for finding that someone special. Hope you both are happy always.
• Philippines
8 Jul 08
Well, after the break up, we became friends... but not as close. Not that we are not yet over and done with the relationship, it is just our personality. I guess the reason why we broke up and the way we broke up affected it. We still communicate but not go out as both of us have work to attend to and have our own relationships to foster. Friends are good.
• Malaysia
8 Jul 08
i see. So you both are still communicationg well. So, have you found someone new?
@wendy1980 (131)
• China
8 Jul 08
I have the same idea with you!after break up, we can become good friends.
• Malaysia
8 Jul 08
yup... it's great to be friends.. thanks for respond.
@shooie (4989)
• United States
11 Jul 08
It's a great thing when people can break up and still be friends. You are still young so am sure you will have more relationships. What you need to do before you make any decission about trying to get back together with your friend as girlfriend and boyfriend is make a list of pro's and con's....why it worked and why it didn't. Then sit and think has anything changed in your life and or hers to make any of this change or will it be a short lived relationship again? Does she have another boyfriend or is she looking for another one? All this needs to be considered. Was it you that broke up or was it her? or did you both agree to do so? so much to think about. Good luck.
@bmorehouse1 (1029)
• United States
11 Jul 08
Actually my ex-husband and I are better friends than we have been in a very long time. We actually go out to eat together and spend holidays with our children together at my house. When his father was sick in the hospital and then passed away I was included in everything with the family. We just cannot live together. Now he can do what he wants and I can do what I want. It is better this way. I would much rather have it this way than hating each other.