cold feet...anyone?

@vanities (11336)
Davao, Philippines
July 9, 2008 6:51am CST
i was having discussion on the phone when a friend of mine pay a visit and at the same time invites me for the wedding of her daughter..we talk on how life is treating both of us when our topic was change on the marriage of her daughter(24 years old daughter)and confide on me that her daughter is having a cold feet at some point ..but it was resolve immediately after she had explained that its one of the jitters of getting married...and ask her daughter if she really love the man...and its all that matters..what about you guys any same experience? or do you think having cold feet is a sign not to get married?
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@jillhill (37357)
• United States
9 Jul 08
Since it's one of the biggest decisions of your life..I think it's okay to stop and ponder if its what you really have in mind and heart. There is nothing wrong with stopping before you go ahead to look over the whole situation and make sure that it's a step you want to take which should be a lifetime decision!
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@vanities (11336)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Jul 08
that very well said!!i guess your right on that..
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@williamjisir (22909)
• China
9 Jul 08
Good evening, dear vanities. I don't think that it is scientific, but superstitious. It has nothing to do with their marriage, I guess? hehe.
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@vanities (11336)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Jul 08
maybe so..working to make the marriage work out really depend on the couple itself..
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@shooie (4989)
• United States
9 Jul 08
Cold feet I personally don't think it is a sign to not get married. If that was the case I wouldn't be married to the most wonderful guy in the world if I went with the cold feet feeling. I think it basically is just the wedding day jitters. I get cold feet when going into meetings and meeting some of my husbands co-works and things of that nature. jitters shivers
@vanities (11336)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Jul 08
maybe it just a jitters..im glad to know that..
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@gemini1960 (1162)
• Philippines
13 Jul 08
no, not even once , i love my wife so much that i dont given it much a thought before the wedding. However i had a friend who had that wedding jitters..and i even think that he will not proceed as schedule but thanks to God he did..