Does Virginity still important to you?

@jinxky (2251)
Philippines
July 10, 2008 12:28am CST
What can you about virginity? is it important to you or not? Please share your views.. virgins or not virgins i just want to know your perspective.. thanks
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@kaezy_kulet (2465)
• Philippines
11 Jul 08
yes it is..it is our most priced possession and it is very very very important..our future husbands might no be virgin like us but still they deserve the gift that we offer to them on the night of our wedding..nothing is much greater gift for your husband than the gift of your virginity..
@jinxky (2251)
• Philippines
11 Jul 08
but dont you think it's unfair for us? we preserve our virginity until the night of our wedding but our husband is not a virgin anymore, as i have said it should be the other way around..
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@richiem (3646)
• Philippines
10 Jul 08
Yes, virginity still matters. For me, virginity is something sacred that a person can offer as a special gift to his lover after marriage. I still think it is very important for a girl to be virgin. I have always wanted to have a virgin bride.
@jinxky (2251)
• Philippines
10 Jul 08
im just wondering why guyz love to have a virgin gf/wife? don't you think you should be virgin too until you reached the day of your marriage? coz for us girls, it's really unfair, in this case... coz lots of men want to have virgin gf/wife, it should be the other way around..
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@richiem (3646)
• Philippines
11 Jul 08
Yes, I know girls love to have a virgin husband. I am still a virgin and I would like to save for the my wife.
• China
11 Jul 08
yea, hehe, it is a intersting question. I feel virginity is very important to me even though i know a lof of people don't care about this.And i always said to myself to accept the opinion if a girl is not virginity.BUt in my heart,i still care about it.Becayse i hope my future is pure girl to me.But sometimes, i also deny my own this opinion.I think a pure spirit in a girl's heart is more valuable and important than her body.maybe some people can support this opinion.I am also trying to accept it. Good luck to you
@kun2349 (23475)
• Singapore
10 Jul 08
Can i respond to this, my dear?? hehe ^_^ MISs u lots lots ^_^ Though i'm no longer a virgin, and i would very much would like my partner to be a virgin too.. hehe ^_^ BUt if she is not anymore, i wun mind it too.. Because i believe in her and i trust her to know what she is doing ^_^ muahhh mauhhh muahhhh muahhh muahhh muahhhh ^_^
@jinxky (2251)
• Philippines
11 Jul 08
i was really puzzled why do guyz really love to have virgin gf/wife? & why dont you guyz preserve your virginity until the night of your wedding too?
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@kun2349 (23475)
• Singapore
11 Jul 08
Because i think gals has got more self control as compared to guys and guys tend to be much more adventurous and it's always hard to keep it under control.. hehe.. And guys get turned on more easily and thus.....
@jinxky (2251)
• Philippines
11 Jul 08
hehehe i get what you mean hun mmwwaahh! ^_^
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• Philippines
11 Jul 08
ive been thinking a number of times if i will respond to this topic. and yet here i am. im kinda shy to talk about it but i do wanted to share thoughts and experience though. i think it is very much important especially on the girls part. as they say in our tradition it is the most important gift a woman can give to his husband on their first night. and i do believe on this very much. i promised myself not to give in until i got married. but unfortunately i broke my own promises. i never regret it,actually the best part of it is that he still is the only person i gave it. and i know that time we had our first we were both virgins. he told after that he did not want to give it to a girl whose not worth it and he will only give in to a person he wanted to spend the rest of his life. besides after everything nothing has ever changed nor his treatment and love towards me. in fact i believed we were been more in love with each other after. we felt more warmth for our relationship. it made our commitment and relationship deeper than ever. besides we did not did it for anything else but only for the sake of love. i hope teenagers will think about it first a hundred times for giving in. for me virginity is like the wholeness of your womanhood. and if you will just give it away like that, you're giving away the meaning of your existence.
@jinxky (2251)
• Philippines
11 Jul 08
thanks for responding here, anywayz, what happen to both of you now? & i also agree with you, let's take s*ex as making love not just a toy what i mean we should value it coz it's really important.. teenagers now want to experience it,, coz of curiosity, but when the girl got pregnant, they dont know what to do.. we must do it in the right time so if this will happen, we're ready.. thanks for sharing ^_^
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• Philippines
12 Jul 08
we were still together until now. we were in fact in our fifth year. and planning to settle down the next few years if fortunate enough to save more money for the wedding.
@jinxky (2251)
• Philippines
12 Jul 08
wow good for you! best wishes ^_^
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@jerkyong (305)
• Philippines
11 Jul 08
who is a virgin nowadays, huh? nahhhh, I don't mind, although I admit it would be a plus.
@jinxky (2251)
• Philippines
11 Jul 08
me, im still a virgin & im proud of it.. i'm preserving it until the night of my wedding.. and virgins are rare nowadays, or should i say extinct lol
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@jerkyong (305)
• Philippines
13 Jul 08
almost extinct, I guess coz you still are, hahahaha
@Elixiress (3893)
10 Jul 08
I know longer have my virginity and I do not think that it makes any difference. I have not changed because I lost my virginity, it did not turn me into a different person or a worse persons. The only reason that I changed is because I got older.
@jinxky (2251)
• Philippines
11 Jul 08
yeah just like what i have said earlier, it's too shallow if your perspective is to have a virgin gf/wife.. well i guess it's a plus if guys have gf/wife who's still a virgin.. but what if you really love the person & she's not a virgin anymore, will you just give up coz you found out that she's not a virgin anymore?... coz few men are like this.. & this is crazy & unfair to the part of women.. anywayz thanks for the post
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@Elixiress (3893)
11 Jul 08
I have never known a guy that is wanting a virginal wife or girlfriend. If anything, guys prefer someone who is not a virgin from my experience.
@anndocs (249)
11 Jul 08
For me, Yes as what other said it's a great gift you can offer to the man where you will spend the rest of your life. Although, nowadays everybody is very open and it's now accpetable. But can hide the fact that if you reserve it and do the right thing you feel the respect and confidence within. Thanks!
@jinxky (2251)
• Philippines
11 Jul 08
i agree, if you're still a virgin we have our confidence & i know that our husband will not complain into it coz he likes to have a virgin wife.. let's just say or let's just compare that he just won in a lottery lol coz virgins are rare nowadays...
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@srpkinja (375)
• Canada
11 Jul 08
I dont know, now that I am not a virgin, I dont think that it is that important to me anymore. Its over with and done, the worst is over, so I dont know why it would be important to me. But before, when I was a virgin, it was very important to me and I think it should be important to every girl. It is not something you should just give up because you want to or are being pressured. The night you lose your virginity should be special and with someone you love, not someone who doesnt love you and is random. You will remember that night for the rest of your life, whether you want to or not which is why you might as well charish it and take good care of it until you find someone you really love and who loves you.
@jinxky (2251)
• Philippines
11 Jul 08
very well said, past is past & we cant get it back. so if the person really loves you, he will accept you for who you are not because your still a virgin..
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@sirfsuraz (468)
• Nepal
13 Jul 08
yes it is concerned with my married life. I want my girl to be virgin. Not only virgin but I am only the person to break her virginity and to go inside her in this world.
• Philippines
11 Jul 08
good day..Virginity hmmm is such a lonely word but not that important to me. Virginity doesn't guarantee a successful marriage. As for wedding gift and stuff well, I'd rather have the heart than the you know. As long as I love her and she loves me that's what's important. I don't care if she's a virgin or not, I wouldn't ask either as long as she don't pretend that she is while she's not, I will love her with all my heart. For me I'll take Fidelity over Virginity anytime of the day.
@Tianna2 (1274)
• United States
10 Jul 08
I certainly hope that any guy I meet doesnt expect me to be a virgin because I wasnt going to wait that long. I think anybody that doesnt expect their lover to have a past of some sort better not have a past themselves. Viginity might have been important when I was a teenager, but at twentynine, I'm getting it wherever and whenever I can! Cheers, Tianna