why are men so insensitive?

@kristia (138)
Philippines
July 10, 2008 4:33am CST
I noticed that men are so insensitive. I just hate them for that. They barely notice the things women do to pleace them and to get their attention. Men are so insentive. Do they have feelings?
2 responses
• United States
10 Jul 08
Not all men are like that, you just need to find a good one. My husband is very aware of the things I do for him and for our family and he is grateful for it all. Not all men are insensitive but if you have such a negative attitude towards them the ones you find will do nothing but disappoint you 9 times out of 10 because you will be too busy looking for the bad to see the good.
@kristia (138)
• Philippines
10 Jul 08
Im not saying men are bad. Im just saying they are insensitive!! So, you can say that everything you do is appreciated by him? so there was not once that he didn't notice you efforts?? If that's the case, then you've found the perfect man,but no one is perfect. Even how he always appreciate the things you've done, are you really sure he is sincere???? maybe he is just sayingit to make you happy but does not necessarily mean it!!
• United States
10 Jul 08
You are obviously very bitter. Hope you day you get over it. See ya!
@kingcrapper (1536)
• United States
10 Jul 08
Sure, some guys can be insensitive and sometimes they may not even care but it all a matter of importance and focus. Get a man in a situation when he is courting and he will pick up on lost of things and make many compliments to the women. Married several years, and guys seems to lose their focus on thier spouce. One thing you have to understand, men are generally brought up and looked at differently as far as feelings and expressing them. That is why they act differently too.