Longest Lasting Relationship and Reason for Breaking Up?

United States
July 10, 2008 3:08pm CST
I always wonder about why other people don't make it in their relationships, I've only had one technical serious boyfriend, and he only lasted a year and three months, with a smattering of hookups three years afterwards, but anyway, we broke up because he pretty much didn't consider me a part of his life anymore...altho he still claimed to love me, I could see and feel that he didn't love me anymore. So I sort of gave him an ultimatum, it was best for us anyway, he was a major stressor on my life. So why didn't it work for you?
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• United States
11 Jul 08
I've actually only ever been in one relationship, no hook-ups, no casual dates. We've been together almost 5 years and we got married about 6 weeks ago.
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• United States
10 Jul 08
Mine was a 5 year relationship, starting when I was 17 got married to him when I was 19 and than later down the road I realized that I was drifting from him cause I was turning into an adult and he wasnt. Oh and he totally treated me like a friend and not so much to say a lova LOL!! I also gave him an ultimatum as well saying that he needed to start treating me like a sexy female LOL and an adult or im out.... He chose me but after a few months i gave up and didnt think anything different was going to happen:)
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@LouieWpHs04 (4554)
• United States
12 Jul 08
I'm sorry to hear that! With great looks like yours though(If that is you in your default picture), you definitely shouldn't have a problem finding another guy for you. Hopefully the right one this time! G'luck. As for me? I don't think i've ever really had a serious relationship, although I am still quite young so maybe it's right around the corner, eh?